"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aw sounds bad doesnt it? i have 4 questions

1. I was wondering how many women are actually on here, a simple hi post will do

2. how did you find out about the site?

3. based on the posts here, do you fell like some of guy's on here, are on the ball when it comes to women?

4. is taking advice from a girl on dating bad?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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pLaYtHiNg

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imaginemypotential said:
aw sounds bad doesnt it? i have 4 questions

1. I was wondering how many women are actually on here, a simple hi post will do

2. how did you find out about the site?

3. based on the posts here, do you fell like some of guy's on here, are on the ball when it comes to women?

4. is taking advice from a girl on dating bad?
I'll bite...

1.) I know there are at least 4 ladies here, including myself... other than that...?

2.) I found this site looking for relationship advice from men's perspectives, basically. The ladies' forums are fairly whimsical, but most of all, they can't give me a man's POV, which is what I really needed.

3.) I have no doubt many of these men are successful in their conquests, as a result of their natural charisma and the tips offered up here. I can't really say much more as I haven't been 'gamed' by any of these guys.

4.) Depends on the girl and what she says... that's a pretty broad (heh) question. I think you should take advice with a grain of salt, be it from a man or a woman. :)
 

Cinamon

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Hey

1. Yes I am a woman, and have been on here for almost two months. I love the forum.

2. I had had a really bad date and searched the net to try to understand his behaviour, and ended up on here. At that point i didnt realise it was a men only forum.

3. I think some of the guys are really on the ball with women and others not so much. I am guessing most of the members are from USA, where as I live in England, and there seems to be a huge difference in the behaviour of average Joe USA and Average Joe UK.

4. I think guys taking advice from a girl on dating is not so bad, so long as she doesnt have her own hidden agenda. plus you need to assess howsimilar or not the girl being pursued and the girl you are taking advice from are. Its not a obne size fits all, and you need to pick your guides carefully.

I would actually like to thank the guys for the advice on here, its been valuable.
 

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Sorry if this seems to be thread-hijacking, but I have a question to the women here as well.

What do you girls use the information you get here for?
 

pLaYtHiNg

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To understand men, and how to communicate with them, basically. :)

I've also learned when and how to make a move... but only time will tell how bold I've become... :p
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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