"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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aw sounds bad doesnt it? i have 4 questions

1. I was wondering how many women are actually on here, a simple hi post will do

2. how did you find out about the site?

3. based on the posts here, do you fell like some of guy's on here, are on the ball when it comes to women?

4. is taking advice from a girl on dating bad?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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pLaYtHiNg

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imaginemypotential said:
aw sounds bad doesnt it? i have 4 questions

1. I was wondering how many women are actually on here, a simple hi post will do

2. how did you find out about the site?

3. based on the posts here, do you fell like some of guy's on here, are on the ball when it comes to women?

4. is taking advice from a girl on dating bad?
I'll bite...

1.) I know there are at least 4 ladies here, including myself... other than that...?

2.) I found this site looking for relationship advice from men's perspectives, basically. The ladies' forums are fairly whimsical, but most of all, they can't give me a man's POV, which is what I really needed.

3.) I have no doubt many of these men are successful in their conquests, as a result of their natural charisma and the tips offered up here. I can't really say much more as I haven't been 'gamed' by any of these guys.

4.) Depends on the girl and what she says... that's a pretty broad (heh) question. I think you should take advice with a grain of salt, be it from a man or a woman. :)
 

Cinamon

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Hey

1. Yes I am a woman, and have been on here for almost two months. I love the forum.

2. I had had a really bad date and searched the net to try to understand his behaviour, and ended up on here. At that point i didnt realise it was a men only forum.

3. I think some of the guys are really on the ball with women and others not so much. I am guessing most of the members are from USA, where as I live in England, and there seems to be a huge difference in the behaviour of average Joe USA and Average Joe UK.

4. I think guys taking advice from a girl on dating is not so bad, so long as she doesnt have her own hidden agenda. plus you need to assess howsimilar or not the girl being pursued and the girl you are taking advice from are. Its not a obne size fits all, and you need to pick your guides carefully.

I would actually like to thank the guys for the advice on here, its been valuable.
 

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Sorry if this seems to be thread-hijacking, but I have a question to the women here as well.

What do you girls use the information you get here for?
 

pLaYtHiNg

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To understand men, and how to communicate with them, basically. :)

I've also learned when and how to make a move... but only time will tell how bold I've become... :p
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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