"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Wink

sapphire

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Question:

If a chick winks at you when she greets you or says goodbye is this a flirting jesture or just an act of politeness.

I ask because there is a girl I am eyeing who I see occassionaly at the bank and she seems to do this just to me. I am not sure whether it is sort of a hint that she likes me.

Any comments?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ScrewIt

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it's a friendly way of communication and sometimes occasional flirting.

my co-worker does this to sometimes, but she's married and stuff.

plenty of girls do this cause it's their thing.
i woudlnt worry about it. look for other signs of interest.
 

sapphire

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Yea that's what I think, but I am going be looking out for other IOI's (Indicators of Interest) before I make a move. Thanks
 

thefonz

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i don't recall getting to many winks from girls in my daily grind of casual interaction......i'd say it's a sign she wants u to make her squint later on
 

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