"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Wink

sapphire

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Question:

If a chick winks at you when she greets you or says goodbye is this a flirting jesture or just an act of politeness.

I ask because there is a girl I am eyeing who I see occassionaly at the bank and she seems to do this just to me. I am not sure whether it is sort of a hint that she likes me.

Any comments?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ScrewIt

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it's a friendly way of communication and sometimes occasional flirting.

my co-worker does this to sometimes, but she's married and stuff.

plenty of girls do this cause it's their thing.
i woudlnt worry about it. look for other signs of interest.
 

sapphire

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Yea that's what I think, but I am going be looking out for other IOI's (Indicators of Interest) before I make a move. Thanks
 

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i don't recall getting to many winks from girls in my daily grind of casual interaction......i'd say it's a sign she wants u to make her squint later on
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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