"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Wiki DJ Bible Has Landed!!

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http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/The_DJ_Bible

As you can see, it's so far nothing more than an introduction and the outlines of the work.

You could say... I'm just the spark that sets the fire burning.. or not. By that I mean I'm not going to work on it alone!

EVERYONE WHO WILL SUPPORT THE WORK, LEAVE A COMMENT.

Oh, and get going!:D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"no personal attacks allowed"

That rules me out;)
 

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Post a quick tip section, ie: 5 Min Close, The 2-Second rule, Short Chat Ideas, etc.

Articles posted cannot be longer then a paragraph persay. That should get some balls rolling (oops :rolleyes:).
 

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Could be 3, but it's the one where if I see a girl, I have those 2/3/5 seconds to go up to her.

I read it somewhere in a thread.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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another step to going mainstream...ashame if you ask me. Being more exclusive compared to the biggest group of people is a pro.
 

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MyWay said:
another step to going mainstream...ashame if you ask me. Being more exclusive compared to the biggest group of people is a pro.
I don't see it becoming more mainstream. If the wDJB (wiki DBJ lol :D) fulfilled its potential, it still would be mostly read by DJs. Just like they don't bang on about the DJB on mASF.
 

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They don't bang on the DJ Bible, they bang on the BJ Bible because thats what they think this site is all its good for.
 
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