Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Wiki DJ Bible Has Landed!!

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http://en.wikibooks.org/wiki/The_DJ_Bible

As you can see, it's so far nothing more than an introduction and the outlines of the work.

You could say... I'm just the spark that sets the fire burning.. or not. By that I mean I'm not going to work on it alone!

EVERYONE WHO WILL SUPPORT THE WORK, LEAVE A COMMENT.

Oh, and get going!:D
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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"no personal attacks allowed"

That rules me out;)
 

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Post a quick tip section, ie: 5 Min Close, The 2-Second rule, Short Chat Ideas, etc.

Articles posted cannot be longer then a paragraph persay. That should get some balls rolling (oops :rolleyes:).
 

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Could be 3, but it's the one where if I see a girl, I have those 2/3/5 seconds to go up to her.

I read it somewhere in a thread.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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another step to going mainstream...ashame if you ask me. Being more exclusive compared to the biggest group of people is a pro.
 

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MyWay said:
another step to going mainstream...ashame if you ask me. Being more exclusive compared to the biggest group of people is a pro.
I don't see it becoming more mainstream. If the wDJB (wiki DBJ lol :D) fulfilled its potential, it still would be mostly read by DJs. Just like they don't bang on about the DJB on mASF.
 

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They don't bang on the DJ Bible, they bang on the BJ Bible because thats what they think this site is all its good for.
 
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