"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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The Weirdest Close Ever - WTF?

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So, buddy of mine brings a female friend of his out with a few of us. We start talking, I discover her passions in life and we hit it off. Exchange numbers and go for a walk. Obvious interest, kino, kissing, etc.. We get back to my place and things progress. Ultimately she says she's never had sex and she isn't tonight, but interest remains.

I'm thinking when we got back to my place she saw from toys and stuff that I have kids - maybe this was a turn off.

Question: How do I gauge interest and when (got her #)? Ideas on pursuing things?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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amoka

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Any woman that comes home with you after a walk-date highly wants to have sex with you. Did you discuss with her during the date that you have a kid?

217 said:
I am 22 she is 23
PS: You may want to post in the Discussion forum next time. This forum is for 25+.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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