"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Weirdest Close Ever - WTF?

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So, buddy of mine brings a female friend of his out with a few of us. We start talking, I discover her passions in life and we hit it off. Exchange numbers and go for a walk. Obvious interest, kino, kissing, etc.. We get back to my place and things progress. Ultimately she says she's never had sex and she isn't tonight, but interest remains.

I'm thinking when we got back to my place she saw from toys and stuff that I have kids - maybe this was a turn off.

Question: How do I gauge interest and when (got her #)? Ideas on pursuing things?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Any woman that comes home with you after a walk-date highly wants to have sex with you. Did you discuss with her during the date that you have a kid?

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I am 22 she is 23
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PS: You may want to post in the Discussion forum next time. This forum is for 25+.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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