"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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The Weirdest Close Ever - WTF?

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So, buddy of mine brings a female friend of his out with a few of us. We start talking, I discover her passions in life and we hit it off. Exchange numbers and go for a walk. Obvious interest, kino, kissing, etc.. We get back to my place and things progress. Ultimately she says she's never had sex and she isn't tonight, but interest remains.

I'm thinking when we got back to my place she saw from toys and stuff that I have kids - maybe this was a turn off.

Question: How do I gauge interest and when (got her #)? Ideas on pursuing things?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Any woman that comes home with you after a walk-date highly wants to have sex with you. Did you discuss with her during the date that you have a kid?

217 said:
I am 22 she is 23
PS: You may want to post in the Discussion forum next time. This forum is for 25+.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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