"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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the way i have been dealing with rejection.

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i came across this artical on this site.

mistakes when approaching women

it got me thinking about my game in relation to being rejected. for some reason, i have ALWAYS dealt with this badly. i would ALWAYS at like a idiot to turn the girls off me. i do it all the time with my girl friends now. i never noticed this before. i mean. i knew i was acting out. but it didn't have a big impact.

but then i though. why do this? why play my WORST game against girls when i can play my BEST game and play off my competitiveness instead of insecurities.

I am a competitive guy. i like to win and win big. so how do i win? by getting the hottest girl in the club! before i would just lay down. like a beaten dog, because i felt like i wasn't "worthy" of being on top. so i would never get the girl. but who likes loosing? not me! i am going to win! and get the girl I WANT! and no one else is going to get in my way!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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yeah. lately i have been gaming my friend. it's kind of pathetic. she has a bf and all. she has like no interested in me at all. yet something goes off in my brain and i try badly hitting on her.

i really need to look outside the box and not just in the box marked: i am horny therefor i need sex.
 
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rejection is when your wife of 7 years looks you in the eyes and tells you she doesn't love you anymore and wants a divorce

someone you just met who doesn't know you can't reject you
 
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Aaron B said:
rejection is when your wife of 7 years looks you in the eyes and tells you she doesn't love you anymore and wants a divorce

someone you just met who doesn't know you can't reject you
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yeah she can. it just hurts less
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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