"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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the way i have been dealing with rejection.

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i came across this artical on this site.

mistakes when approaching women

it got me thinking about my game in relation to being rejected. for some reason, i have ALWAYS dealt with this badly. i would ALWAYS at like a idiot to turn the girls off me. i do it all the time with my girl friends now. i never noticed this before. i mean. i knew i was acting out. but it didn't have a big impact.

but then i though. why do this? why play my WORST game against girls when i can play my BEST game and play off my competitiveness instead of insecurities.

I am a competitive guy. i like to win and win big. so how do i win? by getting the hottest girl in the club! before i would just lay down. like a beaten dog, because i felt like i wasn't "worthy" of being on top. so i would never get the girl. but who likes loosing? not me! i am going to win! and get the girl I WANT! and no one else is going to get in my way!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yeah. lately i have been gaming my friend. it's kind of pathetic. she has a bf and all. she has like no interested in me at all. yet something goes off in my brain and i try badly hitting on her.

i really need to look outside the box and not just in the box marked: i am horny therefor i need sex.
 
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rejection is when your wife of 7 years looks you in the eyes and tells you she doesn't love you anymore and wants a divorce

someone you just met who doesn't know you can't reject you
 
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Aaron B said:
rejection is when your wife of 7 years looks you in the eyes and tells you she doesn't love you anymore and wants a divorce

someone you just met who doesn't know you can't reject you
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yeah she can. it just hurts less
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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