"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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..........The way i did it.......

WesCottII

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Hey, WesCott here. I though i'd share my experiences on what I did/do to attract women

1) No-one will like you until you like yourself
How can any girl become attracted to you, if you are not attracted to yourself? You have to realise that you are the mutha fvcking best man that this woman has ever come across, infact you have to more that realise, you must know . This confidence within yourself will be a huge turn-on.


Steps to achieve the above
Walk with your head up, sholders down and back. Walk like you OWN everything
Go to the gym, once you have a good body, you cant help looking at yourself in every mirror, and MOST chicks dig big muscles
Ask someone with a style you like to go clothes shopping with you, or, preferably, have the hot shop assistant pick something out for you.

(depending on the popularity of this post, i will elaborate on each point)


2) Forget all the techniques you learned on here
Yes, i realise that i have broken the holy silent agreement of SoSuave.Net. Allthough the majority of these posts are good, they are concerned with what got the author laid/a date. What worked for them is unlikely to work for you. Unfortunatly i see SoSuave.net as a platform rather than a temple. Once you have ascended to the platform, you forge your own path. Memorising a whole convo that is unlikely to come up will not help you bed that chick. Unfortunatly you must go on instinct , or your gut feeling, if your gut is wrong, so what? you know what to do next time.

Steps......
Forget all the posts you have ever read, bar "Be a man", "secret of the jerk" and "weapons of mass seduction"
Talk to someone (not nessecarily a women), without flashing back to all the techniques. See how it goes

3) To quote Pook.........BE A MAN
How often in real life do women come up and talk to you? answer......not very often, or we wouldn't be here. Therefore common logic tells us that you must approach her. To do that, you must have a pair. Whats the worst that can happen?.......but then again, you shouldn't care. Should you?

Cool openers........
1) Hi, I'm WestCott. What's your name? (it works)
2)Thats a nice !item!, where did you get it?, oops, my name is WesCott.

Try them they work.

They are the basics. Happy hunting boys. I may follow it up depending on the results of this.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is it.

This is what its about.

We have to move BEYOND what the people on the site say. Only through being a man can we be sucessful

NOMINATED FOR BIBLE
 

Thraxeh

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Originally posted by WesCottII
2) Forget all the techniques you learned on here
Yes, i realise that i have broken the holy silent agreement of SoSuave.Net. Allthough the majority of these posts are good, they are concerned with what got the author laid/a date. What worked for them is unlikely to work for you. Unfortunatly i see SoSuave.net as a platform rather than a temple. Once you have ascended to the platform, you forge your own path. Memorising a whole convo that is unlikely to come up will not help you bed that chick. Unfortunatly you must go on instinct , or your gut feeling, if your gut is wrong, so what? you know what to do next time.

we have a winner
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ohiofutballa

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im no stranger to this site, ive been floating around here for three years trying to improve my status with women. it took me a while to realize that 50% of the things on this site wont work for me(just in rare situations). after i recognized that fact and stopped trying to do a play-by-play with the bible it helped so much. This site is a guide for you guys, not a rulebook.

Nice work with the post, you put what ive felt into words. good job
 

ohiofutballa

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i just simply stated that ive known of this site for three years...not how long it took me to realize that, sorry for not specifying for you
 

WesCottII

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Hey guys, thanks for the responses.......I wrote that post on a whim, and perhaps the message about going out there got a little lost in the ramble. I too have been here for a while (new user name) and i was always waiting for a convo to come up so i could bust someone elses conversation down. i'm following it up soon.
 
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