"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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..........The way i did it.......

WesCottII

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Hey, WesCott here. I though i'd share my experiences on what I did/do to attract women

1) No-one will like you until you like yourself
How can any girl become attracted to you, if you are not attracted to yourself? You have to realise that you are the mutha fvcking best man that this woman has ever come across, infact you have to more that realise, you must know . This confidence within yourself will be a huge turn-on.


Steps to achieve the above
Walk with your head up, sholders down and back. Walk like you OWN everything
Go to the gym, once you have a good body, you cant help looking at yourself in every mirror, and MOST chicks dig big muscles
Ask someone with a style you like to go clothes shopping with you, or, preferably, have the hot shop assistant pick something out for you.

(depending on the popularity of this post, i will elaborate on each point)


2) Forget all the techniques you learned on here
Yes, i realise that i have broken the holy silent agreement of SoSuave.Net. Allthough the majority of these posts are good, they are concerned with what got the author laid/a date. What worked for them is unlikely to work for you. Unfortunatly i see SoSuave.net as a platform rather than a temple. Once you have ascended to the platform, you forge your own path. Memorising a whole convo that is unlikely to come up will not help you bed that chick. Unfortunatly you must go on instinct , or your gut feeling, if your gut is wrong, so what? you know what to do next time.

Steps......
Forget all the posts you have ever read, bar "Be a man", "secret of the jerk" and "weapons of mass seduction"
Talk to someone (not nessecarily a women), without flashing back to all the techniques. See how it goes

3) To quote Pook.........BE A MAN
How often in real life do women come up and talk to you? answer......not very often, or we wouldn't be here. Therefore common logic tells us that you must approach her. To do that, you must have a pair. Whats the worst that can happen?.......but then again, you shouldn't care. Should you?

Cool openers........
1) Hi, I'm WestCott. What's your name? (it works)
2)Thats a nice !item!, where did you get it?, oops, my name is WesCott.

Try them they work.

They are the basics. Happy hunting boys. I may follow it up depending on the results of this.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is it.

This is what its about.

We have to move BEYOND what the people on the site say. Only through being a man can we be sucessful

NOMINATED FOR BIBLE
 

Thraxeh

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Originally posted by WesCottII
2) Forget all the techniques you learned on here
Yes, i realise that i have broken the holy silent agreement of SoSuave.Net. Allthough the majority of these posts are good, they are concerned with what got the author laid/a date. What worked for them is unlikely to work for you. Unfortunatly i see SoSuave.net as a platform rather than a temple. Once you have ascended to the platform, you forge your own path. Memorising a whole convo that is unlikely to come up will not help you bed that chick. Unfortunatly you must go on instinct , or your gut feeling, if your gut is wrong, so what? you know what to do next time.

we have a winner
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ohiofutballa

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im no stranger to this site, ive been floating around here for three years trying to improve my status with women. it took me a while to realize that 50% of the things on this site wont work for me(just in rare situations). after i recognized that fact and stopped trying to do a play-by-play with the bible it helped so much. This site is a guide for you guys, not a rulebook.

Nice work with the post, you put what ive felt into words. good job
 

ohiofutballa

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i just simply stated that ive known of this site for three years...not how long it took me to realize that, sorry for not specifying for you
 

WesCottII

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Hey guys, thanks for the responses.......I wrote that post on a whim, and perhaps the message about going out there got a little lost in the ramble. I too have been here for a while (new user name) and i was always waiting for a convo to come up so i could bust someone elses conversation down. i'm following it up soon.
 
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