"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The warm approach after newly single

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Long story short, met a chick in class last semester. She was definitely into me. E-mailing, text, etc. She found out I had a GF through mutual friends and contact stopped. No big deal, not too interested anyway she was only HB6. Now I dumped said GF.

My question is more of a general one - once you are newly single and want to let a chick know (since she knew you HAD a girlfriend), I'm thinking something like the following:

1. Text opener / see what she's up to
2. Wait a day/two
3. Call her and make plans. If she says something like "dont you have a gf" I say "No that's over." and change subject back to her.

Any ideas of what else to say? I'm guessing less is more. There are a lot of girls I know that knew I was attached in the past. This isn't for cold approach - in that case I don't even mention my past. I'm talking about people you already know (or know your ex).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I wanted to update my own thread with an experience.

I texted a girl whose number I had in my phone:

Me: Hey xxx, you and me - getting drinks tomorrow
Her: Haha ok sure!

She asked in person what happened, just said "that's over" and continued the conversation, closed with kissing. We'll see where it goes.

Point is, if you are in this scenario just ask the woman out. If she's interested she will go. If she asks, just be quick about it. Play on!
 
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Uncharted said:
I wanted to update my own thread with an experience.

I texted a girl whose number I had in my phone:

Me: Hey xxx, you and me - getting drinks tomorrow
Her: Haha ok sure!

She asked in person what happened, just said "that's over" and continued the conversation, closed with kissing. We'll see where it goes.

Point is, if you are in this scenario just ask the woman out. If she's interested she will go. If she asks, just be quick about it. Play on!
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Yes! Me and a lot of other guys usually forget this very simple point that should be drilled in our brains. Just ask her out to know her true interest, in your case she was interested enough to say yes which is a great thing :up:
 
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