"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Long story short, met a chick in class last semester. She was definitely into me. E-mailing, text, etc. She found out I had a GF through mutual friends and contact stopped. No big deal, not too interested anyway she was only HB6. Now I dumped said GF.

My question is more of a general one - once you are newly single and want to let a chick know (since she knew you HAD a girlfriend), I'm thinking something like the following:

1. Text opener / see what she's up to
2. Wait a day/two
3. Call her and make plans. If she says something like "dont you have a gf" I say "No that's over." and change subject back to her.

Any ideas of what else to say? I'm guessing less is more. There are a lot of girls I know that knew I was attached in the past. This isn't for cold approach - in that case I don't even mention my past. I'm talking about people you already know (or know your ex).
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I wanted to update my own thread with an experience.

I texted a girl whose number I had in my phone:

Me: Hey xxx, you and me - getting drinks tomorrow
Her: Haha ok sure!

She asked in person what happened, just said "that's over" and continued the conversation, closed with kissing. We'll see where it goes.

Point is, if you are in this scenario just ask the woman out. If she's interested she will go. If she asks, just be quick about it. Play on!
 
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Uncharted said:
I wanted to update my own thread with an experience.

I texted a girl whose number I had in my phone:

Me: Hey xxx, you and me - getting drinks tomorrow
Her: Haha ok sure!

She asked in person what happened, just said "that's over" and continued the conversation, closed with kissing. We'll see where it goes.

Point is, if you are in this scenario just ask the woman out. If she's interested she will go. If she asks, just be quick about it. Play on!
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Yes! Me and a lot of other guys usually forget this very simple point that should be drilled in our brains. Just ask her out to know her true interest, in your case she was interested enough to say yes which is a great thing :up:
 
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