"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Long story short, met a chick in class last semester. She was definitely into me. E-mailing, text, etc. She found out I had a GF through mutual friends and contact stopped. No big deal, not too interested anyway she was only HB6. Now I dumped said GF.

My question is more of a general one - once you are newly single and want to let a chick know (since she knew you HAD a girlfriend), I'm thinking something like the following:

1. Text opener / see what she's up to
2. Wait a day/two
3. Call her and make plans. If she says something like "dont you have a gf" I say "No that's over." and change subject back to her.

Any ideas of what else to say? I'm guessing less is more. There are a lot of girls I know that knew I was attached in the past. This isn't for cold approach - in that case I don't even mention my past. I'm talking about people you already know (or know your ex).
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I wanted to update my own thread with an experience.

I texted a girl whose number I had in my phone:

Me: Hey xxx, you and me - getting drinks tomorrow
Her: Haha ok sure!

She asked in person what happened, just said "that's over" and continued the conversation, closed with kissing. We'll see where it goes.

Point is, if you are in this scenario just ask the woman out. If she's interested she will go. If she asks, just be quick about it. Play on!
 
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Uncharted said:
I wanted to update my own thread with an experience.

I texted a girl whose number I had in my phone:

Me: Hey xxx, you and me - getting drinks tomorrow
Her: Haha ok sure!

She asked in person what happened, just said "that's over" and continued the conversation, closed with kissing. We'll see where it goes.

Point is, if you are in this scenario just ask the woman out. If she's interested she will go. If she asks, just be quick about it. Play on!
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Yes! Me and a lot of other guys usually forget this very simple point that should be drilled in our brains. Just ask her out to know her true interest, in your case she was interested enough to say yes which is a great thing :up:
 
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