"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Walk

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Allright mates, heres the deal: bare with me, dont tare me up too bad;)



There's this girl i've been eyeing for some time now but only real recently did i decide that I want to ask her out. (nothing like bein in the friendzone, dont worry, i aint in it:D )

I called her up the other day and set a date for us to go for a stoll (we live in the same neighborhood, so this is easily accomplished)

It should take place at night, and the way we'd go is fairly long, so i have plenty of time to work my magic on her:p I was just wondering in any of you guys had some advice on how to approach the situation?

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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UniqueSoul

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Let's see.
A guitar, fluent ITALIANO and REALLY creative imagination is required for these kinda walks.
Oh, and some condoms-- if you want to be all geared up good.

If she's not a romantic kinda girl, you chose the wrong place, wrong time and wrong thinking about EVERYTHING.
If she is, you don't have to worry 'bout anything (even ITALIANO), cos she's gonna naturally show what she wants to hear from you.

Good luck on that magic.
You're really gonna need some.
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Eventide

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Originally posted by Vigilante7
someone ban this clown

read the damn bible
I've got a better idea, why don't we ban every clown that has nothing constructive to say?

My man over here just wants some ideas on how to make a night-time walk interesting. Which, assuming she's the romantic type, like Unique said, isn't a bad idea.
 

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Walks are my fav. Slip your hand into hers at one point and just enjoy the stroll. Don't think too much about your goal, just enjoy...

lik
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Oh yes, sir!
This walking. silent voice tone. dreamy attitude. feeling relaxed and feeling her hand in yours. makes me want the night to be way longer than it is. makes me wanna that her parents would not have wanted to stay awake and wait for her to come back after 02.00am.
Or maybe is it that I'm a romantic and night-time is probably the only time when they reveal more that they can see in me?..

Makes me wonder---
WHY THE HELL CAN'T I MEET A ROMANTIC GIRL AFTER ALL THIS MISCALCULATED SHARING OF THOUGHTS AND FANTASIES WITH THE ONE THAT DOESN'T APPRECIATE THIS ****???

Making that arrogant playa sweat and beg for more is one thing, and a complete 180 degrees turn the hell back is when she tells you that a personality like yours need to be changed WAY MORE THAT I THINK.
Nice.

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Originally posted by Eventide
I've got a better idea, why don't we ban every clown that has nothing constructive to say?

My man over here just wants some ideas on how to make a night-time walk interesting. Which, assuming she's the romantic type, like Unique said, isn't a bad idea.
agreed!
 

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Oh, and keep a dreamy attitude, but don't get lost between the real world and your fantasies. keep focused on her voice tone, her remarks about the surroundings and everything.
--- unleash your imagination. --- keep the talks at this kinda style- she gives you something like a basic info what is she thinking or what she wants to hear from you- maybe even one only word, but it's absolutely ok if she's a romantic. you- give her a WHOLE LOT MORE, sth like a "full and detailed version" of what she said. cos she needs that. she wants that. slowly get her into your fantasies. make sure you both start wondering 'bout things.
Romantics need their imagination to be revealed step by step. When she sees that she can trust you, she'll be more into you.

Make little pauses. But don't let her dream alone.--- cos when there's someone near who can say your dreams out loud (but not too loud), that makes romantics, um, say, feel good while being with that person.

And start incorporating compliments about her looks in your talks as time passes. Don't exaggerate at the starting phase of all this, but remember that she wants to hear that from you.

Romantic girls long to find themselves feeling weak in your arms. Literally. Surround her with imagined sights and keep being a guy, who's arms can be those overtaking ones-- confident, and stuff like that which you prolly know as an ABC.

She needs to find this "double" you- romantic@night and "masculine guy"@times when she starts to lose control.

Even magic doesn't tear mountains tha **** down in one night, but creative imagination will surely make her YOURs. Don't rush, but keep the pressure when you see that SHE has lost it and keep the things ROMANTIC.
That's one sure way to victory, as I might say from my xp.

(a little messed up, but hope this'll help you to approach the situation in the right way. MAKE HER WANT YOU.)
;)
 
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