"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Walk

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Allright mates, heres the deal: bare with me, dont tare me up too bad;)



There's this girl i've been eyeing for some time now but only real recently did i decide that I want to ask her out. (nothing like bein in the friendzone, dont worry, i aint in it:D )

I called her up the other day and set a date for us to go for a stoll (we live in the same neighborhood, so this is easily accomplished)

It should take place at night, and the way we'd go is fairly long, so i have plenty of time to work my magic on her:p I was just wondering in any of you guys had some advice on how to approach the situation?

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Let's see.
A guitar, fluent ITALIANO and REALLY creative imagination is required for these kinda walks.
Oh, and some condoms-- if you want to be all geared up good.

If she's not a romantic kinda girl, you chose the wrong place, wrong time and wrong thinking about EVERYTHING.
If she is, you don't have to worry 'bout anything (even ITALIANO), cos she's gonna naturally show what she wants to hear from you.

Good luck on that magic.
You're really gonna need some.
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Originally posted by Vigilante7
someone ban this clown

read the damn bible
I've got a better idea, why don't we ban every clown that has nothing constructive to say?

My man over here just wants some ideas on how to make a night-time walk interesting. Which, assuming she's the romantic type, like Unique said, isn't a bad idea.
 

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Walks are my fav. Slip your hand into hers at one point and just enjoy the stroll. Don't think too much about your goal, just enjoy...

lik
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Oh yes, sir!
This walking. silent voice tone. dreamy attitude. feeling relaxed and feeling her hand in yours. makes me want the night to be way longer than it is. makes me wanna that her parents would not have wanted to stay awake and wait for her to come back after 02.00am.
Or maybe is it that I'm a romantic and night-time is probably the only time when they reveal more that they can see in me?..

Makes me wonder---
WHY THE HELL CAN'T I MEET A ROMANTIC GIRL AFTER ALL THIS MISCALCULATED SHARING OF THOUGHTS AND FANTASIES WITH THE ONE THAT DOESN'T APPRECIATE THIS ****???

Making that arrogant playa sweat and beg for more is one thing, and a complete 180 degrees turn the hell back is when she tells you that a personality like yours need to be changed WAY MORE THAT I THINK.
Nice.

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Originally posted by Eventide
I've got a better idea, why don't we ban every clown that has nothing constructive to say?

My man over here just wants some ideas on how to make a night-time walk interesting. Which, assuming she's the romantic type, like Unique said, isn't a bad idea.
agreed!
 

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Oh, and keep a dreamy attitude, but don't get lost between the real world and your fantasies. keep focused on her voice tone, her remarks about the surroundings and everything.
--- unleash your imagination. --- keep the talks at this kinda style- she gives you something like a basic info what is she thinking or what she wants to hear from you- maybe even one only word, but it's absolutely ok if she's a romantic. you- give her a WHOLE LOT MORE, sth like a "full and detailed version" of what she said. cos she needs that. she wants that. slowly get her into your fantasies. make sure you both start wondering 'bout things.
Romantics need their imagination to be revealed step by step. When she sees that she can trust you, she'll be more into you.

Make little pauses. But don't let her dream alone.--- cos when there's someone near who can say your dreams out loud (but not too loud), that makes romantics, um, say, feel good while being with that person.

And start incorporating compliments about her looks in your talks as time passes. Don't exaggerate at the starting phase of all this, but remember that she wants to hear that from you.

Romantic girls long to find themselves feeling weak in your arms. Literally. Surround her with imagined sights and keep being a guy, who's arms can be those overtaking ones-- confident, and stuff like that which you prolly know as an ABC.

She needs to find this "double" you- romantic@night and "masculine guy"@times when she starts to lose control.

Even magic doesn't tear mountains tha **** down in one night, but creative imagination will surely make her YOURs. Don't rush, but keep the pressure when you see that SHE has lost it and keep the things ROMANTIC.
That's one sure way to victory, as I might say from my xp.

(a little messed up, but hope this'll help you to approach the situation in the right way. MAKE HER WANT YOU.)
;)
 
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