"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I was a virgin until I was 18.

Looking back, I know that I looked like a total dweeb back then, until I made changes.

And I am 100% sure that some of you virgins (or born-again virgins, aka guys who have not had sex for years) have the simple problem that you LOOK the part of a virgin, instead of looking the part of a player.

And I am here to give you a swift, truthful analysis and advice on how to change your appearance to get you inside a p@ssy!!

I am looking at people like Caped Crusader, ElStud, LukeSkywalker, and anyone else who is a virgin, and clueless as to why they have not have sex yet

the creepy virgin dweeb look is almost guaranteed to be the thing holding you back

so please, post your pic, and I will help you out

EDIT EDIT EDIT: 10 post limit, i forgot about that! - I am not going to post pics of myself, because I am not a virgin (or even close to one), please focus on the point of the thread!

virgins post your pics, and I will tell you how to improve your looks

if all I am gonna get is wise-ass nerdy remarks, then I aint gonna be helping those who are so hopeless that they are beyond help........damn
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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this is a picture/analysis of picture thread ONLY, i am not here to take pity stories

if you don't want to post your photo here, then you obviously are not looking for help on losing your virginity
 

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Some people just don't think with their ****s. I also drive a decent looking car, wear nice clothes, am not over weight, not ugly and have a serious social network... though admittedly I'm only 5'7". Yet I'm almost a decade into a "dry spell"... I also know some seriously geeky people nailing 9's and 10's.

I'll not be posting any pics as that would certainly be picked up by people I know. And... as the old addage goes, you gotta pay to play. If you want pics, you have to start off with your own.

BTW we all looked like dorks in HS.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Logical Player said:
-I was a virgin until I was 18.
-I know that I looked like a total dweeb back then, until I made changes.
-the creepy virgin dweeb look is almost guaranteed to be the thing holding you back
-I am not going to post pics of myself
-virgins post your pics, and I will tell you how to improve your looks
You sound like Bernie Madoff

- I had no money until I was 18
- I know that I wasted my money back then, until I made changes
- putting your money in low risk investments is almost guaranteed to be thing holding you back
- I'm not going to tell you how to make money
- but if you give your money, I will make you money

Rock on!
 

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The Logical Player as this is a public forums most people are relutant to post pictures of who they are. At this point in my game, I would not want people I know IRL to know that I am posting on a place such as this. I doubt I am the only one that feels like this.
 
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Hmm,well,I will look to see if I have a pic anywhere. I don't think how I dress is necessarily the problem. I do have a thing about fashion though,in that I like nice clothes,but hate fashion. Know what I mean? I mean,do you suggest like gelling you're hair up,wearing d +g sunglasses, gap/abercrombie/american eagle/whatever stupid brand name clothes are popular amongst the youth? I don't or ever cared for that ****,and see people who do as followers,unable to just not give a **** like me.

I'm not tryint to be wise with you either,so don't take it as that. It's something more mental for me. I generally dress pretty well.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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where's luke when u need him.
 
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Well,I don't have a pic,but am constantly told I look like Jack Black,weird thing is,his birthday is the day before mine. So that gives you an idea of what I look like.....
 

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lol @ these "players" infesting the board, lol @ the OP, ha ha ha

is it just me or is he a troll?
 
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March 3, 2009. This is the continuation of a virtual story or account of myself on here. It transcends any threads that may have been closed off (Renewed Goals thread, or even long and winding threads such as 'Quest to Get Laid', Lessons Learned this Year', etc...) Now this can be posted on to any thread. This one is selected.

I've decided that I'm a virgin because of my set-up, or my c0ckblocking parents rather than not being attractive to women or being rejected (although I don't feel I'm a stud, successful or get high-interest from most attractive and sane women which doesn't help). I don't feel posting a picture on here is going to help as long as my parents are pulling the strings of who I'm going out with or my dating life as a whole. Plus, the econonomy is bad, have to focus on where I'm going business-wise and feel women are simply a distraction.

So for starters, I know what I'm going to do:

1) Stop talking about my love life with my mom or asking mom permission (or dad) of who to see or date.

2) Record any instance where I'm 'hiding behind my mom or dad' as to avoid potential rejection from women -- that's usually a personal vice. Will look for excuses to stick to parents and avoid women.

3) Consider new activities where I could meet women, without consulting parents about them, other than saying I'm going wherever.

4) Do not ask mom persmission to eat any food at home or to do any stupid thing where I feel I need my mom's moral support to protect myself from over-indulgence (i.e. eating too much in the home, or otherwise having fun in here), or in other ways act like a child and hug her too many times.

******

I'm fully committed to breaking the addiction of fully relying on my parents emotionally and psychologically.
 

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trickz said:
Ill be the first to post a pic :

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30167930&l=2e43e&id=1491648408 - old pic

heres a recent one - http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30191346&l=dde5b&id=1491648408

Im not a virgin (16 lays with diff girls) but if you could recommend a style or clothes/piercings/hair that would suit me, go for it.


Im the dude on the right with the lovebites by the way
No homo but your actually pretty good lookin...The hair style suits you great and so do the clothes!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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trickz, 16 girls is alot, so you obviously know what you are doing

to the virgins who posted snide-wise-ass remarks in this thread instead of photos - are you looking for help, or are you looking for a safe place to be nerds and waste time without reprecussion?

I can't FORCE help on those who are beyond help in their heads
 

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DonJuan11 said:
You sound like Bernie Madoff

- I had no money until I was 18
- I know that I wasted my money back then, until I made changes
- putting your money in low risk investments is almost guaranteed to be thing holding you back
- I'm not going to tell you how to make money
- but if you give your money, I will make you money
LOL

Btw, virgin is a female term. Men shouldn't call themselves "virgins," it's ridiculous.
 
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Darth said:
LOL

Btw, virgin is a female term. Men shouldn't call themselves "virgins," it's ridiculous.
What makes it a female term?

A guy that has never been inside a woman before is a virgin, just like a woman that never had a man inside her is a virgin.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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