"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Virgin Photo Thread

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I was a virgin until I was 18.

Looking back, I know that I looked like a total dweeb back then, until I made changes.

And I am 100% sure that some of you virgins (or born-again virgins, aka guys who have not had sex for years) have the simple problem that you LOOK the part of a virgin, instead of looking the part of a player.

And I am here to give you a swift, truthful analysis and advice on how to change your appearance to get you inside a p@ssy!!

I am looking at people like Caped Crusader, ElStud, LukeSkywalker, and anyone else who is a virgin, and clueless as to why they have not have sex yet

the creepy virgin dweeb look is almost guaranteed to be the thing holding you back

so please, post your pic, and I will help you out

EDIT EDIT EDIT: 10 post limit, i forgot about that! - I am not going to post pics of myself, because I am not a virgin (or even close to one), please focus on the point of the thread!

virgins post your pics, and I will tell you how to improve your looks

if all I am gonna get is wise-ass nerdy remarks, then I aint gonna be helping those who are so hopeless that they are beyond help........damn
 
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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this is a picture/analysis of picture thread ONLY, i am not here to take pity stories

if you don't want to post your photo here, then you obviously are not looking for help on losing your virginity
 

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Some people just don't think with their ****s. I also drive a decent looking car, wear nice clothes, am not over weight, not ugly and have a serious social network... though admittedly I'm only 5'7". Yet I'm almost a decade into a "dry spell"... I also know some seriously geeky people nailing 9's and 10's.

I'll not be posting any pics as that would certainly be picked up by people I know. And... as the old addage goes, you gotta pay to play. If you want pics, you have to start off with your own.

BTW we all looked like dorks in HS.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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The Logical Player said:
-I was a virgin until I was 18.
-I know that I looked like a total dweeb back then, until I made changes.
-the creepy virgin dweeb look is almost guaranteed to be the thing holding you back
-I am not going to post pics of myself
-virgins post your pics, and I will tell you how to improve your looks
You sound like Bernie Madoff

- I had no money until I was 18
- I know that I wasted my money back then, until I made changes
- putting your money in low risk investments is almost guaranteed to be thing holding you back
- I'm not going to tell you how to make money
- but if you give your money, I will make you money

Rock on!
 

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The Logical Player as this is a public forums most people are relutant to post pictures of who they are. At this point in my game, I would not want people I know IRL to know that I am posting on a place such as this. I doubt I am the only one that feels like this.
 
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Hmm,well,I will look to see if I have a pic anywhere. I don't think how I dress is necessarily the problem. I do have a thing about fashion though,in that I like nice clothes,but hate fashion. Know what I mean? I mean,do you suggest like gelling you're hair up,wearing d +g sunglasses, gap/abercrombie/american eagle/whatever stupid brand name clothes are popular amongst the youth? I don't or ever cared for that ****,and see people who do as followers,unable to just not give a **** like me.

I'm not tryint to be wise with you either,so don't take it as that. It's something more mental for me. I generally dress pretty well.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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where's luke when u need him.
 
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Well,I don't have a pic,but am constantly told I look like Jack Black,weird thing is,his birthday is the day before mine. So that gives you an idea of what I look like.....
 

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lol @ these "players" infesting the board, lol @ the OP, ha ha ha

is it just me or is he a troll?
 
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March 3, 2009. This is the continuation of a virtual story or account of myself on here. It transcends any threads that may have been closed off (Renewed Goals thread, or even long and winding threads such as 'Quest to Get Laid', Lessons Learned this Year', etc...) Now this can be posted on to any thread. This one is selected.

I've decided that I'm a virgin because of my set-up, or my c0ckblocking parents rather than not being attractive to women or being rejected (although I don't feel I'm a stud, successful or get high-interest from most attractive and sane women which doesn't help). I don't feel posting a picture on here is going to help as long as my parents are pulling the strings of who I'm going out with or my dating life as a whole. Plus, the econonomy is bad, have to focus on where I'm going business-wise and feel women are simply a distraction.

So for starters, I know what I'm going to do:

1) Stop talking about my love life with my mom or asking mom permission (or dad) of who to see or date.

2) Record any instance where I'm 'hiding behind my mom or dad' as to avoid potential rejection from women -- that's usually a personal vice. Will look for excuses to stick to parents and avoid women.

3) Consider new activities where I could meet women, without consulting parents about them, other than saying I'm going wherever.

4) Do not ask mom persmission to eat any food at home or to do any stupid thing where I feel I need my mom's moral support to protect myself from over-indulgence (i.e. eating too much in the home, or otherwise having fun in here), or in other ways act like a child and hug her too many times.

******

I'm fully committed to breaking the addiction of fully relying on my parents emotionally and psychologically.
 

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trickz said:
Ill be the first to post a pic :

http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30167930&l=2e43e&id=1491648408 - old pic

heres a recent one - http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=30191346&l=dde5b&id=1491648408

Im not a virgin (16 lays with diff girls) but if you could recommend a style or clothes/piercings/hair that would suit me, go for it.


Im the dude on the right with the lovebites by the way
No homo but your actually pretty good lookin...The hair style suits you great and so do the clothes!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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trickz, 16 girls is alot, so you obviously know what you are doing

to the virgins who posted snide-wise-ass remarks in this thread instead of photos - are you looking for help, or are you looking for a safe place to be nerds and waste time without reprecussion?

I can't FORCE help on those who are beyond help in their heads
 

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DonJuan11 said:
You sound like Bernie Madoff

- I had no money until I was 18
- I know that I wasted my money back then, until I made changes
- putting your money in low risk investments is almost guaranteed to be thing holding you back
- I'm not going to tell you how to make money
- but if you give your money, I will make you money
LOL

Btw, virgin is a female term. Men shouldn't call themselves "virgins," it's ridiculous.
 
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Darth said:
LOL

Btw, virgin is a female term. Men shouldn't call themselves "virgins," it's ridiculous.
What makes it a female term?

A guy that has never been inside a woman before is a virgin, just like a woman that never had a man inside her is a virgin.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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