Married Buried
Master Don Juan
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Can this user be banned? It's my wife trying to spy on all the posts I make. This is supposed to be a private discussion of real mean, no wives are allowed.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Actually I TOLD her my username. It was dumb, but I really have nothing to hide. Why should I run around and cover my tracks like a p/ssy?Jaylan said:Dang. Id like to think that in 2013, guys can become at least tech savvy enough that they know how to cover their internet tracks from women. Hell, just deleting history and cookies could prevent most women from being able to know what a guy is doing online.
O wells, good luck OP. You will need it. Your privacy is pretty much gone.
From now on, surf on your phone, or do it on a computer thats not a home pc.
ThunderMaverick said:Malice, this is a serious question.
Do you take meds? Have you been diagnosed with any kind of mental disorder or have doctors checked you out? Honest to God i'm not trying to be mean. I'm actually concerned. You mentioned the drinking in the other thread (as well as the pot) so it's unsettling. Have you thought about seeking a therapist?
Well, if you log in under her account and post a bunch of spam, I might consider it.Malice said:Can this user be banned?
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
No you dumbass, you have to post that under HER account nameMalice said:Anyone else pre order the Playstation 4? Check out this game:
Malice:
Can this user be banned? It's my wife trying to spy on all the posts I make.
Robert Greene would have a field day with you. The second rule of Fight Club is to own the consequences of your actions.Actually I TOLD her my username. It was dumb, but I really have nothing to hide. Why should I run around and cover my tracks like a p/ssy?
I got a good laugh outta that hahahaDesdinova said:No you dumbass, you have to post that under HER account name
Desdinova said:No you dumbass, you have to post that under HER account name
Not only did I tell her, but since we live together, I am not going to be a p/ssy and clear my history and look over my shoulder all the time. I don't give a f/ck. Let her read.Deep Dish said:Robert Greene would have a field day with you. The second rule of Fight Club is to own the consequences of your actions.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
I never "invited" her. Let's clear that up right now. She obviously snoops in my internet history (what woman wouldn't?), and since I am not a complete p/ssy like some people in this thread telling me to clear my history, I let it slide. Because I won't be looking over my shoulder all the time giving a f/ck about stupid things like clearing my history, when I am doing nothing wrong.Deep Dish said:Malice, the point is you’re making a thread about it. The part about trying to get her banned, after inviting her, as if that would have accomplished anything, anyhow.
You should each have your own computer and they should be password protected. You both deserve your privacy. Why do you allow your wife to snoop through your personal stuff? You should have set that **** straight from the get go. No sense being married if you can't trust each other.Malice said:I never "invited" her. Let's clear that up right now.....I won't be looking over my shoulder all the time giving a f/ck about stupid things like clearing my history, when I am doing nothing wrong.
hockster said:You should each have your own computer and they should be password protected. You both deserve your privacy. Why do you allow your wife to snoop through your personal stuff? You should have set that **** straight from the get go. No sense being married if you can't trust each other.