Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The user who goes by the name "Camelo"

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Can this user be banned? It's my wife trying to spy on all the posts I make. This is supposed to be a private discussion of real mean, no wives are allowed.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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It doesn't matter if she has an account here or not. She can still see the forum regardless, just can't post if she doesn't have an account.
 
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Dang. Id like to think that in 2013, guys can become at least tech savvy enough that they know how to cover their internet tracks from women. Hell, just deleting history and cookies could prevent most women from being able to know what a guy is doing online.

O wells, good luck OP. You will need it. Your privacy is pretty much gone.

From now on, surf on your phone, or do it on a computer thats not a home pc.
 
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I use Internet Explorer and set it to autodelete cookies and history.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jaylan said:
Dang. Id like to think that in 2013, guys can become at least tech savvy enough that they know how to cover their internet tracks from women. Hell, just deleting history and cookies could prevent most women from being able to know what a guy is doing online.

O wells, good luck OP. You will need it. Your privacy is pretty much gone.

From now on, surf on your phone, or do it on a computer thats not a home pc.
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Actually I TOLD her my username. It was dumb, but I really have nothing to hide. Why should I run around and cover my tracks like a p/ssy?
 
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Malice, this is a serious question.

Do you take meds? Have you been diagnosed with any kind of mental disorder or have doctors checked you out? Honest to God i'm not trying to be mean. I'm actually concerned. You mentioned the drinking in the other thread (as well as the pot) so it's unsettling. Have you thought about seeking a therapist?
 
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ThunderMaverick said:
Malice, this is a serious question.

Do you take meds? Have you been diagnosed with any kind of mental disorder or have doctors checked you out? Honest to God i'm not trying to be mean. I'm actually concerned. You mentioned the drinking in the other thread (as well as the pot) so it's unsettling. Have you thought about seeking a therapist?
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Read the goddamn thread. I already said several times I saw a shrink.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Malice:
Can this user be banned? It's my wife trying to spy on all the posts I make.
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Actually I TOLD her my username. It was dumb, but I really have nothing to hide. Why should I run around and cover my tracks like a p/ssy?
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Robert Greene would have a field day with you. The second rule of Fight Club is to own the consequences of your actions.
 
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No you dumbass, you have to post that under HER account name
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I'm not worried about it. Let her see the other views. I think she likes it. And we all know she likes the drama. This can be used to my advantage if you think about it.

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Robert Greene would have a field day with you. The second rule of Fight Club is to own the consequences of your actions.
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Not only did I tell her, but since we live together, I am not going to be a p/ssy and clear my history and look over my shoulder all the time. I don't give a f/ck. Let her read.

Also I really did pre order the playstation 4.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Malice, the point is you’re making a thread about it. The part about trying to get her banned, after inviting her, as if that would have accomplished anything, anyhow.
 
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Malice, the point is you’re making a thread about it. The part about trying to get her banned, after inviting her, as if that would have accomplished anything, anyhow.
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I never "invited" her. Let's clear that up right now. She obviously snoops in my internet history (what woman wouldn't?), and since I am not a complete p/ssy like some people in this thread telling me to clear my history, I let it slide. Because I won't be looking over my shoulder all the time giving a f/ck about stupid things like clearing my history, when I am doing nothing wrong.
 
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Malice said:
I never "invited" her. Let's clear that up right now.....I won't be looking over my shoulder all the time giving a f/ck about stupid things like clearing my history, when I am doing nothing wrong.
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You should each have your own computer and they should be password protected. You both deserve your privacy. Why do you allow your wife to snoop through your personal stuff? You should have set that **** straight from the get go. No sense being married if you can't trust each other.
 
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hockster said:
You should each have your own computer and they should be password protected. You both deserve your privacy. Why do you allow your wife to snoop through your personal stuff? You should have set that **** straight from the get go. No sense being married if you can't trust each other.
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Because I don't give a damn and I have nothing to hide. She already has her own laptop. I am doing nothing wrong, let her see everything. When you start hiding sh!t and acting sketchy is when things go downhill. In return I know she is not hiding anything from me. I have her facebook password and email password. I have nothing to hide or fear.
 
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