After I had sex with this chick, I dropped her off...Told her to call me tonight. She didn't. So I didn't call her. The next day I called her once in the afternoon, no answer. Didn't call her again. She hasn't called me back. I am having a urge to call her again but I'm forcing myself not too. Is she playing mind games or what? I'm thinking of not calling but then who's to know if she'll call me again. Should I just keep fighting it and not call her or do I just wait another day or two to call again? The only problem is that eventually I'll want to meet up with her and have sex again so I really want to keep in touch.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
The urge to call...
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I'm assuming that you have no desire to pursue a relationship with this woman?
Mind games aside if she was into you she would have called.
As far as FWB, give her a call in a few days. If she doesn't call back its pretty obvious you got dumped. Move on. You don't need that ****.
Mind games aside if she was into you she would have called.
As far as FWB, give her a call in a few days. If she doesn't call back its pretty obvious you got dumped. Move on. You don't need that ****.
Whenever possible, AVOID telling a woman to call you. They usually won't do it
If you already tried calling her once, then she knows you're not just being an assh0le who won't call. Wait at least a week before trying again. And look for more chicks in the meantime.
And yeah, chances are she's blown you off. She's a hor; what do you expect? You can't have any serious dealings with a prostitute.
If you already tried calling her once, then she knows you're not just being an assh0le who won't call. Wait at least a week before trying again. And look for more chicks in the meantime.
And yeah, chances are she's blown you off. She's a hor; what do you expect? You can't have any serious dealings with a prostitute.
Yeah, next time tell her that you'll call her, keep the ball in your court. Otherwise you'll be like you are; waiting for her call, which gives her the upper hand.
I'd go on with life for the next target, maybe call in a week.
Let us know how it goes!
I'd go on with life for the next target, maybe call in a week.
Let us know how it goes!
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
You told her to call? Are you the guy or the girl in the relationship?baurman said:After I had sex with this chick, I dropped her off...Told her to call me tonight. She didn't. So I didn't call her. The next day I called her once in the afternoon, no answer. Didn't call her again. She hasn't called me back. I am having a urge to call her again but I'm forcing myself not too. Is she playing mind games or what? I'm thinking of not calling but then who's to know if she'll call me again. Should I just keep fighting it and not call her or do I just wait another day or two to call again? The only problem is that eventually I'll want to meet up with her and have sex again so I really want to keep in touch.
At least I learned something today... The reason I told her to call me is so that I don't look bad when I end up not calling her. But you guys are right. Just like how I'm the one who asks for her number (not give my number) I will be in control when I say "I'll call you tomorrow" or something.
But since she's a wh0re....If we don't talk for like a week or two, and I end up calling I still think she'd be down to kick it and inevitably fvcking again.
i always thought if you call you are weaker cause you are catering to her...so it makes you seem like you always are calling.
But since she's a wh0re....If we don't talk for like a week or two, and I end up calling I still think she'd be down to kick it and inevitably fvcking again.
i always thought if you call you are weaker cause you are catering to her...so it makes you seem like you always are calling.
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I like that. Telling a woman to call you is like telling her, "Penetrate me." It just doesn't make much sense.DonJuan11 said:You told her to call? Are you the guy or the girl in the relationship?
GRR I just told a girl to CALL ME last week....Fvck why didnt you make this thread earlier!!!!!! I'll call her tomorrow and set something up if she makes up something to get out of it again then fvck the b1tch but at least I know now. Thanks for the tip.
DJing 101 - NEVER expect the girl to be the aggressor.
By telling HER to call YOU, she has to become the aggressor. Chicks don't dig that and what you'll find is that they never will call. Experienced PUA's have a thing that sets them aside from AFC's - PATIENCE. By jumping the gun, you have set yourself up for disappointment. Here's my advice: DON'T DO THAT!! Grow a pair and learn to wait it out. Right now you're in bad shape by telling her this and furthermore, when she gave you the message that she wasn't into you by not calling you back - YOU WENT AHEAD AND CALLED HER. That was begging, a no nonsense tactic toward ending things between the two of you. Dude, it's game over - find another one.
By telling HER to call YOU, she has to become the aggressor. Chicks don't dig that and what you'll find is that they never will call. Experienced PUA's have a thing that sets them aside from AFC's - PATIENCE. By jumping the gun, you have set yourself up for disappointment. Here's my advice: DON'T DO THAT!! Grow a pair and learn to wait it out. Right now you're in bad shape by telling her this and furthermore, when she gave you the message that she wasn't into you by not calling you back - YOU WENT AHEAD AND CALLED HER. That was begging, a no nonsense tactic toward ending things between the two of you. Dude, it's game over - find another one.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
I was writing to the original poster but I think everyone can learn from this. Learning from other people's mistakes is a safer approach.j0n024 said:HAHA if your talking to me ok I understand it wasnt that bad of a loss just some pretty big t1ts but other then that she had nothing ok I'll remember next time.