"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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The Umbrella

iqqi

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oh. BTW, not that there is anything wrong with carrying an umbrella if you are a guy, but i think it is fcuking sexy as hell when a man (with dark eyes and careless hair) is dressed in black, and (fashionably sensitive but too cool to care) about the rain.

wet = sex

wet, dark, careless rebel = sexy


but i like suicidal psychos, so take this with a grain of salt.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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CLOONEY

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AMF and James you guys need to relax. Some of these "immature" guys just bring a little different perspective on life to the site, they make some funny azz comments, try not to take in personal. You still do get the decent advice if you really need it, if you find such behavoiur insulting, just ignore it and only take in the important info. Its called "filtering".

Take it easy
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I sometimes use an umbrella in the summer when its too hot outside they give you good shade.
 
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