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sql said:you need to establish yourself as a sexual person. if you don not do this, you will fall into the let's just be friends scenario. while you had a great time with her, you didnt make any moves on her, and at most may have come across as disinterested in her romantically. depending on what kind of relationship you want with this girl, you need to establish your your sexual nature within a certain amount of time - after which she wont pay attention to your advances since you will already be deemed androginous or sexually incapable (no offense). LTRs tend to fare better when you take your time unraveling your sexual nature, while proceeding too fast will doom relationships to a short lived lifespan. you should proceed with caution as not to scare them off, but you should definately NOT deny your sexual attraction. ignoring her reminds her that you are a rare commodity, one that she stand to benefit from associating with - thats your currency and your advantage.
my 2 cents....
so i think here i can simplify it a bit. from my experience, u approach a girl, u r somewhat lowering ur value and u need to cover that up by building a strong connection or chemistry with her as soon as possible, now after u have built up the chemistry, u can go into the ignoring phase and flirting phase at the same time. it will make her want u more or make her addictive to u. now, if u dont approach and just want to lure her in with ur personality, u can take ur time to create the chemistry, its easy and thats why, most of us prefer to wait for the right girl to come to us.
oldschooler said:No this entire ****ing concept is contradictory.
- Let her chase you, girls don't chase guys... just try change society.
- If your waiting for her to make a move nothing will ever come of things, why the hell wouldn't you make a move... the advice here is so paradoxical.