"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The ultimate nice guy...

NobodyCares1

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I was browsing youtube for some music when I stumbled across this: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DjOjiLFXvTk

I feel bad for the guy for being so naive but at the same time it makes me sick how feminized he is. :down:

But I actually know a guy who's a bit like this, I've heared him say that he will only kiss a girl he is going to marry. But he at least acts a bit more manly and I don't know how but he got a girl chasing after him for almost a year.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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****ing clowns
 

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NobodyCares1 said:
I feel bad for the guy for being so naive but at the same time it makes me sick how feminized he is.
What's disturbing is how his dad is filling his head with all that sh!t. Poor kid doesn't have a chance.
 

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Exactly, his dad is supposed to be a person who would show him how to be a man, not to make him a woman with a penis. Well actually that's not a good comparison he isn't even acting like a woman.

I'ts sad because I think that guy would get a sh!tload of chicks if he'd just see the light. And with a name like that he would have it even easier with chicks who listen to metal. :D
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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NewAndImproved said:
The judges don't even respect him. Even bleeding-heart Paula Abdul.
Women have absolutely no sympathy for a shy virgin like this guy. They will sooner sympathize with a convicted murderer/sex offender doing a life sentence than a guy who has never kissed a girl.
 
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