"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I could have done this as a reply to movie DJ's but these guys aren't strictly actors. I figure there are three guys whose stuff I have read who are inspirational as DJ's in nearly every aspect of their lives.

1. Richard Branson
2. Frank Sinatra
3. JFK.

They all did and do it their way. Except Frank, he's dead.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by Sart
I could have done this as a reply to movie DJ's but these guys aren't strictly actors. I figure there are three guys whose stuff I have read who are inspirational as DJ's in nearly every aspect of their lives.

2. Frank Sinatra

If you get a chance, watch the movie the rat pack (the newer one with Ray Liotta) FRank is the man!
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Frank!

I suggest you get the book "The way you wear you hat" its ALL about Sinatra and his style. Kinda gives quotes from Frank on how to dress, handle women, friends. etc. Its a great book if you dig Frank. I should go read it again.........
 

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Macguyver is on the top of my list.
 

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Originally posted by Sart
I could have done this as a reply to movie DJ's but these guys aren't strictly actors. I figure there are three guys whose stuff I have read who are inspirational as DJ's in nearly every aspect of their lives.

1. Richard Branson
2. Frank Sinatra
3. JFK.

They all did and do it their way. Except Frank, he's dead.
JFK's dead too!:)

The guy who played as Van Wilder in National Lampoon's Van Wilder movie.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Van Wilder was a good movie and i like the actor, but people always talking about how cool you are doesn't happen in real life for anybody.
 
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