"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Infinity

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This is an old thread, but I have a few questions on Part II (ie. moving in for the lay).

1. What do you need to say to her while you are feeling her ass up and trying to squeeze her boobs? Last weekend, I was feeling a girl's ass almost immediately upon meeting her, but I didn't know what to say. We had exchanged basic introductions, but I figured if I tried to conversate with her I would screw up her orgasm (she was so into me)! Eventually, she left to "find her friends." Could I have just said "what are you doing after this?" Remember, I hardly had talked to this girl AT ALL!

2. Can you really squeeze a girl's boobs in the club? In the US?


Thanks.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Ice Cold

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Mediocre at best.

The theory in a nutshell:

1)learn to dance and dance
2)say hi to chicks
3)drink until you're "merry"
4)if a chick is finally started to grind you, don't be shocked, but grind her back.

We should move this to Unusual Techniques forum. :rolleyes:
 

Zebedee

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Ice Cold pretty much summed it all up. Saying to a girl do you come here often is lame. Odds are the girl has already heard it a million times before, your icebreaker needs to be a lot more original than that. Girls want confident men with originality. Also one tip of my own most of you should already know this so I am probably stating the obvious but never offer to pay for the girls drinks or when its your turn to be served let her go first. Some of you may think that this makes you look like a gentleman but in reality it will make you look like a pushover. Also squeezing a girls tits when you first meet her is stupid as it makes you look like a horny little virgin rather than an alpha male, one more thing if you are gonna touch her tits dont say anything let her get lost in the moment.
 

amoka

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Damn, nice material. I wish it was posted toward the end of the week....
 

SharinganUser

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As long as you aren't using the old sneak n grind maneuver. You know the one, where you see a gal dancing so you sneak up behind her and start grinding with her. 9999/10000 times it's met with the I can believe that just touched me look.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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dap

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You can't put your hands down a girls pants in a club. At least not in the US. Even if you could, American girls would never go for it (at least none that are worth your time).
 

Yotsuya-san

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pootwo said:
PART 1
This is just a small section. It’s been said a lot on this site that when you go out you shouldn’t drink a lot as this hinders your DJ skills. I have to disagree with this. I think drink is an important part of the going out experience.
I’m not saying that you should get absolutely wasted to the point where you can barely stand & your conversation has turned to ramblings about why Thundercats is better than He-Man (yes, I have actually done that), but you should still have enough alcohol to enjoy yourself. Besides, the more you drink the more confidence it gives you. So, I think you should drink till you’re ‘merry’… but try not to get completely wankered.
Aha. But one should never argue over which is better: Thundercats or He-Man. That's like arguing over whether Transformers or Robotech is better. You know we all loved them 80s cartoons equally.:rockon:
 

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You can't put your hands down a girls pants in a club. At least not in the US. Even if you could, American girls would never go for it (at least none that are worth your time).
sorry man :D . i agree with the part about about them not being relationship material. i cant understand why any guy would pursue a relationship with a girl he met in a club beyond the first night.

while were on the topic, has anyone ever gotten a one night stand from a chick in a club?? ive only been to a club three times and have managed to hook up with a chick within 5 min from eye contact. prolly could have fvcked her but i slipped up. so i am certain i can do it. has anyone actually done it?? tell me a story :)
 

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Hahahaha

dap said:
You can't put your hands down a girls pants in a club. At least not in the US. Even if you could, American girls would never go for it (at least none that are worth your time).
Well, that's just patently false. It's never been MY move (I'm super classy), but the dance floor finger-blast was one of my most seasoned, favorite wingmen's #1 go-to move. He ran "pure alpha"/caveman style game; basically just all raw instinct and presupposition, setting a frame immediately of dominance while I established some social proof for him and ran more traditional set material. We were consistently awesome. As often as not, he would just start dancing / grinding with the hottest girls at the club, they'd smell his comfort level, sex state and vibe, and he would rapidly kino-escalate until he was inside her. Sometimes, he'd do this to four or five women a night. He even ****ed a couple of girls on the dance floor. Neither of which is especially sanitary, IMHO, but still hilarious. :woo:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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xstang77

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Good refreshers,I actually picked up a girl at a club when I was younger doing this who was a part time stripper and was just there dancing with friends,she was going through divorce and older then me and it was a great once to twice a month fwb,I stupidly cut it off when I got involved with my ex.
 
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