iveyleeger
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
The Ultimate Chump
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
samson73103
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Yeah, this guy is bad in denial. What's it gonna take for him to accept that his lovely wife is grazing in greener pastures? Maybe if her lawyer friend breaks it off in her, then he will see the truth. I will never understand why so many men refuse to face reality in situations such as this. I have done some really boneheaded things where women are concerned but I have never been blind to the signs of infidelity and cannot feel much sympathy for any man who is willing to allow his wife to share the goods with someone else. After he finally accepts his beloved is just a high class call girl, he should talk to a psychologist and find out why he has allowed himself to be treated like this for the last five years.
Seiously?
"I would say that 95% of time, it is the husband who acts in this totally inappropriate way. A man of 40 is in his dating prime whereas the typical dumpy woman of 40 with a few kids has very little dating value. But sometimes it is the other way around."
Not me! I''ve known too many women who behave like this.
Men usually slip up and get caught. Women are much better at hiding romantic flings.
I have at least 5 friends (including my brother) who were married and found out how smooth women are at telling lies and they all learned the hard way. Its a myth that men cheat more. Personally I think women cheat more than men do.
Sayno'
"I would say that 95% of time, it is the husband who acts in this totally inappropriate way. A man of 40 is in his dating prime whereas the typical dumpy woman of 40 with a few kids has very little dating value. But sometimes it is the other way around."
Not me! I''ve known too many women who behave like this.
Men usually slip up and get caught. Women are much better at hiding romantic flings.
I have at least 5 friends (including my brother) who were married and found out how smooth women are at telling lies and they all learned the hard way. Its a myth that men cheat more. Personally I think women cheat more than men do.
Sayno'
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damn...that some sad **** cuzz....god damn....
DoubleA
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Well, it's always a sad sight when a man refuses to dig in and fight for the things that matter.
But personally I think this isn't the penmenship of an AFC but I think it's hailing from the woman involved wondering why her AFC hubby has no bizzalls. Sometimes people will tell on themselves when standing in the shadow of guilt. Otherwise what man in their right mind would write a nationally known collumnist admitting they can't keep their marriage and family together.
I think it's either a fraud or it's the wife herself writing about the lack of attention from her hubby. So she's cheating wondering why he's not grabbing his nuts and shutting this s**t down.
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But personally I think this isn't the penmenship of an AFC but I think it's hailing from the woman involved wondering why her AFC hubby has no bizzalls. Sometimes people will tell on themselves when standing in the shadow of guilt. Otherwise what man in their right mind would write a nationally known collumnist admitting they can't keep their marriage and family together.
I think it's either a fraud or it's the wife herself writing about the lack of attention from her hubby. So she's cheating wondering why he's not grabbing his nuts and shutting this s**t down.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
The saddest part is the columnist who advises him to enter counseling and work things out with his wife. Because she operates under the guise of being a 'professional' 
people will read this and assume that her suggestion is the right thing to do.
Just another example of the metrosexualization of america.
people will read this and assume that her suggestion is the right thing to do. Just another example of the metrosexualization of america.
Of course women cheat more. The reason the stereotypes suggest otherwise is because: 1) Men are more likely to admit indiscretions for egotistical reasons (to pollsters or to friends), 2) Men are more likely to make a dumbass mistake and get caught, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY--> 3) The overwhelming insecurity of women make them more likely to investigate and eventually expose a cheating man.
This is why men get more press time when it comes to cheating. Women do it more often, they just fly under the radar.
This is why men get more press time when it comes to cheating. Women do it more often, they just fly under the radar.
iveyleeger
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yes, that column was in "ask amy" so of course the ho says "he needs counseling" . in reality, he needs a divorce attorney
Rollo, you sound like a psychologist or something
but these letters are anonymous. there is an even worse one i will post if i can find itiveyleeger
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Sperm: The 'gift' that keeps on giving
Court dismisses man's theft claim against lover who kept semen
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7024930/
"Phillips accuses Dr. Sharon Irons of a “calculated, profound personal betrayal” after their affair six years ago, saying she secretly kept semen after they had oral sex, then used it to get pregnant."
Moral of the story: make her swallow, and sah, "Ahhh"
Court dismisses man's theft claim against lover who kept semen
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7024930/
"Phillips accuses Dr. Sharon Irons of a “calculated, profound personal betrayal” after their affair six years ago, saying she secretly kept semen after they had oral sex, then used it to get pregnant."
Moral of the story: make her swallow, and sah, "Ahhh"