iveyleeger
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
The Ultimate Chump
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
samson73103
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Yeah, this guy is bad in denial. What's it gonna take for him to accept that his lovely wife is grazing in greener pastures? Maybe if her lawyer friend breaks it off in her, then he will see the truth. I will never understand why so many men refuse to face reality in situations such as this. I have done some really boneheaded things where women are concerned but I have never been blind to the signs of infidelity and cannot feel much sympathy for any man who is willing to allow his wife to share the goods with someone else. After he finally accepts his beloved is just a high class call girl, he should talk to a psychologist and find out why he has allowed himself to be treated like this for the last five years.
Seiously?
"I would say that 95% of time, it is the husband who acts in this totally inappropriate way. A man of 40 is in his dating prime whereas the typical dumpy woman of 40 with a few kids has very little dating value. But sometimes it is the other way around."
Not me! I''ve known too many women who behave like this.
Men usually slip up and get caught. Women are much better at hiding romantic flings.
I have at least 5 friends (including my brother) who were married and found out how smooth women are at telling lies and they all learned the hard way. Its a myth that men cheat more. Personally I think women cheat more than men do.
Sayno'
"I would say that 95% of time, it is the husband who acts in this totally inappropriate way. A man of 40 is in his dating prime whereas the typical dumpy woman of 40 with a few kids has very little dating value. But sometimes it is the other way around."
Not me! I''ve known too many women who behave like this.
Men usually slip up and get caught. Women are much better at hiding romantic flings.
I have at least 5 friends (including my brother) who were married and found out how smooth women are at telling lies and they all learned the hard way. Its a myth that men cheat more. Personally I think women cheat more than men do.
Sayno'
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damn...that some sad **** cuzz....god damn....
DoubleA
Senior Don Juan
Well, it's always a sad sight when a man refuses to dig in and fight for the things that matter.
But personally I think this isn't the penmenship of an AFC but I think it's hailing from the woman involved wondering why her AFC hubby has no bizzalls. Sometimes people will tell on themselves when standing in the shadow of guilt. Otherwise what man in their right mind would write a nationally known collumnist admitting they can't keep their marriage and family together.
I think it's either a fraud or it's the wife herself writing about the lack of attention from her hubby. So she's cheating wondering why he's not grabbing his nuts and shutting this s**t down.
-A
But personally I think this isn't the penmenship of an AFC but I think it's hailing from the woman involved wondering why her AFC hubby has no bizzalls. Sometimes people will tell on themselves when standing in the shadow of guilt. Otherwise what man in their right mind would write a nationally known collumnist admitting they can't keep their marriage and family together.
I think it's either a fraud or it's the wife herself writing about the lack of attention from her hubby. So she's cheating wondering why he's not grabbing his nuts and shutting this s**t down.
-A
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The saddest part is the columnist who advises him to enter counseling and work things out with his wife. Because she operates under the guise of being a 'professional' 
people will read this and assume that her suggestion is the right thing to do.
Just another example of the metrosexualization of america.
people will read this and assume that her suggestion is the right thing to do. Just another example of the metrosexualization of america.
Of course women cheat more. The reason the stereotypes suggest otherwise is because: 1) Men are more likely to admit indiscretions for egotistical reasons (to pollsters or to friends), 2) Men are more likely to make a dumbass mistake and get caught, AND MOST IMPORTANTLY--> 3) The overwhelming insecurity of women make them more likely to investigate and eventually expose a cheating man.
This is why men get more press time when it comes to cheating. Women do it more often, they just fly under the radar.
This is why men get more press time when it comes to cheating. Women do it more often, they just fly under the radar.
iveyleeger
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yes, that column was in "ask amy" so of course the ho says "he needs counseling" . in reality, he needs a divorce attorney
Rollo, you sound like a psychologist or something
but these letters are anonymous. there is an even worse one i will post if i can find itiveyleeger
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Sperm: The 'gift' that keeps on giving
Court dismisses man's theft claim against lover who kept semen
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7024930/
"Phillips accuses Dr. Sharon Irons of a “calculated, profound personal betrayal” after their affair six years ago, saying she secretly kept semen after they had oral sex, then used it to get pregnant."
Moral of the story: make her swallow, and sah, "Ahhh"
Court dismisses man's theft claim against lover who kept semen
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/7024930/
"Phillips accuses Dr. Sharon Irons of a “calculated, profound personal betrayal” after their affair six years ago, saying she secretly kept semen after they had oral sex, then used it to get pregnant."
Moral of the story: make her swallow, and sah, "Ahhh"