"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The UGLIEST Guy you've seen be a Successful DJ ?

Peterpack

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Just curious.

Who is the Ugliest guy you've seen be a successful DJ ?

And i mean without any celebrity of money advantage. And i don't mean an ugly guy with a hot girlfriend, but that could be just a one off, i mean an ugly guy who on a regular basis picks up different women and gets laid.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Warrior74

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You.


lol. no seriously. My boy E. He is black as midnight, has huge ears, looks like hes about 15 (he's 35) and is skinny like a crackhead and is 5'7. He has hella game...has had it as long as I've known him. He dresses to impress every single day, keeps a fresh hair cut, fresh shoes, nice watches. Has a serious watch collection. Keeps his car clean, always has the latest stereo in his ride, keeps it clean and sounding good with nice wheels that aren't too flashy (no spinners). Keeps his crib clean. And he goes after and sleeps with lots of hot women. He used to video tape them and show all the boys the tapes. Apparently he wasn't particularly hung. About 7 inches I'd guess. I used to hang with him in college and he'd show me things about running game. He always had a main girlfriend who was fine as hell who he treated like crap and cheated on constantly, even sleeping with her friends and associates. His current wife was a cheerleader in college who I used to sleep with every now and then...looks like Stacy Dash (the black chic from Clueless,google it). She knew he was a player but didn't care..she waited almost 7 years before he finally decided to marry her. He still cheats on her and she's busted him plenty, but she won't leave him. That skinny black focker has hella game.
 

KontrollerX

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Probably that guy who was last boning Paris Hilton until he got kicked to the curb.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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Well, I have no pics of guys I've known or seen. But, I've seen some ugly 30 year old men who; don't have their own car or a job. But, can fvck 18 year old girls.

I even known a 26 year old tweaker with no job or car and lives with his momma get girls. ( he didn't get the girl cause of his drugs either. She was a straight edge girl. Goes to show girls like bad boys too.

I'm telling you guys. It is all about your personality and how you act.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DJVladdy

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Some scrawny Albanian guy who stayed back in 9th grade, and look like a racoon - I was gonna smack him once. Bring his confidence down a notch.
 
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