"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The typical "She has a boyfriend"

faiNt`

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This is going to be a fairly long story because you need to know what's going on before you can make a judgment call.

I'm a sophomore in highschool now. I've known about this girl since beginning of freshman year, but I didn't notice anything special about her because we didn't talk. I do often see a girl and think "Wow ..nice" or whatnot, but I can honestly say I've never felt that about this girl till she started talking to me.

I play basketball for my school, and so when I would stay after for practice or games, occationally she would hang out with me till one of us had to leave. Now rememeber, she has a boyfriend from this point on .. First time we met was roughly two months ago, I'm sitting doing homework waiting for practice, and she comes over to me and doesn't know my name, so she asks. I tell her, then she asks if I know her name, and of course I do seeing as she's rather popular.

Next time we end up hanging out she sits on my lap. I figured it was obvious there, but being the idiot I am, I did nothing. So I figure I'll find out a little more about her before I do anything. Another time hanging out after school starts asking me if I like anyone .. I gave her the "Nahhh .. *smile* " type of thing. She caught on right away and started asking me non-stop for literally weeks. It sucks when you're afraid of rejection (N).

Alright so after all this happens, basketball ends and I figure I wouldn't be hanging out with her anymore since I'm not staying after school. Wrong - within a few days I ended up going over her house because I was waiting for a ride to an appointment.

At her house - we chilled in her basement .. alone. She and I played pool and of course she starts the game on trying to figure out who I like. Now, this is the killer. She says this exactly (remember has has a fvcking boyfriend =\)

"Ok, you dare me to do something, and then you have to give me a hint to who it is."

I reply, "What am I supposed to dare you to do?"

She said something like, "Oh idk .."

And of course, being the AFC, I left it at that. When I was leaving her house I asked her for her number, because she said we needed to hang out this weekend TWICE. I figured if she said it once, I'd take it as just something to say, but twice is different. (When I did call her to ask her to chill with me, she made it into a 10 second convo where she hung up on me and didn't call back because her phone 'died' or some BS.)

When I did ask her for her phone number she said something along the lines of
"So X, are you prude?"
"Nope" *smile*
"How far?"
I tell her, and I don't know why, but I don't ask her the same thing.

Advice on what I'm supposed to do now would be helpful, I'm not even sure she likes me, but then again isn't it SO COMPLETELY OBVIOUS?

Funniest thing is I didn't even think about her once sexually until she showed me her personality. I'd say 7 or 8 on looks; 10 on personality.

EDIT:// forgot something
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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john paul

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Shes got a boyfriend. So you can either not care becuase it is only high school and make a move on her or stop talking to her until they break up. Asking her to break up with her boyfriend wont work.

So the bottem line is if you dont care about the boyfriend then make a move.

If she was hot enough and i didnt respect the guy i would do it.
 

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Bump, need more opinions
 

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Start flirting....lots of playful teasing, lots of kino. And next time she gives you a window, GO THROUGH IT!!!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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john paul said:
Shes got a boyfriend. So you can either not care becuase it is only high school and make a move on her or stop talking to her until they break up. Asking her to break up with her boyfriend wont work.

So the bottem line is if you dont care about the boyfriend then make a move.

If she was hot enough and i didnt respect the guy i would do it.
HELLO! My Method! *Hi-5*

You should still make moves. And don't alienate the bf, that'll give off the desperation vibe. Be cool and the bf might do some dumb sh*t to where a breakup occurs. This is where you really strike the hot iron. But show you're a lover, not a wimp AFC aka those who fall in the friend zone. :flowers: They do that then they end up like this. :cry:

Don't do that kind of sh*t.

You really could also use a boyfriend destroyer. Otherwise, be clean and show that you're the better man. :up:
 
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