The two steps in getting girls

[Pdizzzzzzle]

Hey guys,
I'm pretty new at this. I haven't been posting much, but Ive been reading this stuff for about 2 years. So feel free to tear up this advice I'm going to try to give.

Anyway, I've discovered there's almost two mind sets to dating girls. This the opening stage where you want to appear like the most ****y guy in the world,and a general fun loving guy that the girl will be honored to go out with. Then theres the second stage, where you stay ****y, but you should involve chivalry. Some guys say don't use it, I say go for it. Holding a door open for them will only help. They'll like that you can respect them, but that your not going to be their b!tch. If they're upset by chivalry and think its sexist, you going out with a feminazi who's not worth you time. Hope this might have helped anyone.

 

[SinJester]

It's one style.

I feel it works because when you start being nicer the girl feels like you have opened up to her in a way that you haven't to most people. She feels special and appreciated.

 

[kazz]

Pdizzzzzzle, I'm pretty much the same way (long time lurker new poster) but anyway...the advice seems pretty sound. The only thing missing is kino...that could be the third step along with jokes, eye contact...all that other stuff that should come naturally.

 

[drummer]

agreed with SinJester... when you are C&F (and I'm talking just naturally) and then you are nicer to a girl you are going out with, they really do feel special, but that is NO excuse to go overboard on the niceness and be just another *****y guy in a relationship...

 

[Pdizzzzzzle]

agreed with SinJester... when you are C&F (and I'm talking just naturally) and then you are nicer to a girl you are going out with, they really do feel special, but that is NO excuse to go overboard on the niceness and be just another *****y guy in a relationship...

thanks for all the feedback. I wrote this in a rush so it was more a generalzation but the ideas you guys give is great. Thanks a lot so far.