"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The two guys technique

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I took this from a book called "GIRLS CHASING"by Cathy Hopkins

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GUY A and GUY B go to a party. GUY A likes a GIRL.

These tow guys should not give the idea that they are friends, better if they do it like being part of a large group. GUY A looks at GIRL like making her know he's interested

GUY B approachs GIRL and points at GUY A. He says to her: "listen, it's not my bussiness, but that guy is trouble... Every girl he knows ends up crying..."

She'll probably tell GUY B: "I can take care of myself"

After a while GUY A approaches GIRL. Now, she's very interested in GUY A, in the reason why is that girls cry for him and she's ready to show him that she is not a silly girl. What does GUY A do? He acts like he's a great guy, a caring person, a deep thinker... So she starts to find out that maybe GUY B was wrong... So she relaxes and opens herself to the guy... At least GUY A gets a phone number...

[No need to play those "jerk" DJ games here... She already thinks you make lots of girls cry!! Now you have to show her you won't hurt her].
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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That sounds really dumb the way it's written.

But what you are basically saying is that it's similar to a game of "good cop" , "bad cop" .

But good cop bad cop is a bit different because one guy plays the game of being an ******* from the get go.
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
That sounds really dumb the way it's written.

But what you are basically saying is that it's similar to a game of "good cop" , "bad cop" .

I took it from a book. Apparently is was a common method.

Maybe it worked a few decades ago when women were supposed to look for good men for marriage so it was fair to advice a nice girl about a guy who only wanted sex... And leave the girl wondering about the guy...
 

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Yeah I didn't mean to write that to insult you.

Some of the books out there are interesting. It is just tough to sort the good from the bad without having read the DJ forums for a while.

For instance that Louis and Copeland book has alot of good stuff in it, but some bad advice as well. Take a look at it at Borders or Barnes and Noble. At the moment I forget what it's title is.
 

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Hahah. That's sounds like a pretty fun trick. Me and my bud will try it at a party if we feel like having some fun.....
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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