"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The two guys technique

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I took this from a book called "GIRLS CHASING"by Cathy Hopkins

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GUY A and GUY B go to a party. GUY A likes a GIRL.

These tow guys should not give the idea that they are friends, better if they do it like being part of a large group. GUY A looks at GIRL like making her know he's interested

GUY B approachs GIRL and points at GUY A. He says to her: "listen, it's not my bussiness, but that guy is trouble... Every girl he knows ends up crying..."

She'll probably tell GUY B: "I can take care of myself"

After a while GUY A approaches GIRL. Now, she's very interested in GUY A, in the reason why is that girls cry for him and she's ready to show him that she is not a silly girl. What does GUY A do? He acts like he's a great guy, a caring person, a deep thinker... So she starts to find out that maybe GUY B was wrong... So she relaxes and opens herself to the guy... At least GUY A gets a phone number...

[No need to play those "jerk" DJ games here... She already thinks you make lots of girls cry!! Now you have to show her you won't hurt her].
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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That sounds really dumb the way it's written.

But what you are basically saying is that it's similar to a game of "good cop" , "bad cop" .

But good cop bad cop is a bit different because one guy plays the game of being an ******* from the get go.
 

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Originally posted by Ricky
That sounds really dumb the way it's written.

But what you are basically saying is that it's similar to a game of "good cop" , "bad cop" .

I took it from a book. Apparently is was a common method.

Maybe it worked a few decades ago when women were supposed to look for good men for marriage so it was fair to advice a nice girl about a guy who only wanted sex... And leave the girl wondering about the guy...
 

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Yeah I didn't mean to write that to insult you.

Some of the books out there are interesting. It is just tough to sort the good from the bad without having read the DJ forums for a while.

For instance that Louis and Copeland book has alot of good stuff in it, but some bad advice as well. Take a look at it at Borders or Barnes and Noble. At the moment I forget what it's title is.
 

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Hahah. That's sounds like a pretty fun trick. Me and my bud will try it at a party if we feel like having some fun.....
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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