"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The two guys technique

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I took this from a book called "GIRLS CHASING"by Cathy Hopkins

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GUY A and GUY B go to a party. GUY A likes a GIRL.

These tow guys should not give the idea that they are friends, better if they do it like being part of a large group. GUY A looks at GIRL like making her know he's interested

GUY B approachs GIRL and points at GUY A. He says to her: "listen, it's not my bussiness, but that guy is trouble... Every girl he knows ends up crying..."

She'll probably tell GUY B: "I can take care of myself"

After a while GUY A approaches GIRL. Now, she's very interested in GUY A, in the reason why is that girls cry for him and she's ready to show him that she is not a silly girl. What does GUY A do? He acts like he's a great guy, a caring person, a deep thinker... So she starts to find out that maybe GUY B was wrong... So she relaxes and opens herself to the guy... At least GUY A gets a phone number...

[No need to play those "jerk" DJ games here... She already thinks you make lots of girls cry!! Now you have to show her you won't hurt her].
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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That sounds really dumb the way it's written.

But what you are basically saying is that it's similar to a game of "good cop" , "bad cop" .

But good cop bad cop is a bit different because one guy plays the game of being an ******* from the get go.
 
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Originally posted by Ricky
That sounds really dumb the way it's written.

But what you are basically saying is that it's similar to a game of "good cop" , "bad cop" .
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I took it from a book. Apparently is was a common method.

Maybe it worked a few decades ago when women were supposed to look for good men for marriage so it was fair to advice a nice girl about a guy who only wanted sex... And leave the girl wondering about the guy...
 
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Yeah I didn't mean to write that to insult you.

Some of the books out there are interesting. It is just tough to sort the good from the bad without having read the DJ forums for a while.

For instance that Louis and Copeland book has alot of good stuff in it, but some bad advice as well. Take a look at it at Borders or Barnes and Noble. At the moment I forget what it's title is.
 
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Hahah. That's sounds like a pretty fun trick. Me and my bud will try it at a party if we feel like having some fun.....
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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