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be true to who you are, as a man that will set you free
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
The truth will set you free
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Interceptor
Master Don Juan
Well, genuiness is not only attractive, it helps us move closer to the things, people and place we really want , and resonate with.
Being tru to your Self means having Integrity with your Values.
Even if it means being unpopular or 'cool' like the other kids....
Truth is ultimately Self Truth, because there really is no ONE defining Universal truth for everybody.
As woo woo as it sounds, "Being One with Oneself" is really good advice.
It means being totally comfortable and accepting of one's Self, and at Peace with oneself.
People are often looking for Peace. And it becomes very attractive when we truly have deep Inner peace. We can become a sort of refuge or asylum in a way. Deep inner peace means shutting out all the noise and only hearing what truly resonates inside of you.
When you look deeply inside you will find aspects of yourself that youve carried since you were a child. Some good, some not so good.
The ones that cause you pain, distortion, dysfunction and block you from growing, learning, and moving forward in life have to be dealt with.
But we must be honest with ourselves.
We have to truly look at our REAL Motivations for wanting and doing certain things.
And we have to be more self aware of our reactions, how we respond too, what are our triggers?? what sets us off???
When we're triggered, are we mindful enough to stay in control and proper perspective??? Or do we just explode with rage and uncontrolled emotions?
What sort of person would you want to be around?
What sort of Man would a woman feel most comfortable around?
And also, can you walk away from a woman who doesnt want you?
The more we know ourselves and our Values, and the more we have integrity and follow our own internal compass and not some brainwashing, the more we are in harmony with ourselves. And this brings us some peace. Peace that most people DO NOT have nowadays.
Instead of tearing others down , why not build ourselves up?
The stronger your "Silent Flute" is , the less the finger wagging propagandists have an effect on you.
And the more you see how scared and disempowered they are. Because they seek not to free you and educate you, but to enslave you and indoctrinate you.
You must know your own truth.
Own it.
And work on the parts that you know do not serve you. Release those things.
You dont have to wear them as a badge. Most people wear them and it becomes like a heavy anchor around their neck.
You dont have to do that.
Become more responsible for yourself , your thoughts, words, and actions.
Instead of being afraid of it, embrace it and accept that it is your destiny anyway. Might as well take the bull by the horns...
Being tru to your Self means having Integrity with your Values.
Even if it means being unpopular or 'cool' like the other kids....
Truth is ultimately Self Truth, because there really is no ONE defining Universal truth for everybody.
As woo woo as it sounds, "Being One with Oneself" is really good advice.
It means being totally comfortable and accepting of one's Self, and at Peace with oneself.
People are often looking for Peace. And it becomes very attractive when we truly have deep Inner peace. We can become a sort of refuge or asylum in a way. Deep inner peace means shutting out all the noise and only hearing what truly resonates inside of you.
When you look deeply inside you will find aspects of yourself that youve carried since you were a child. Some good, some not so good.
The ones that cause you pain, distortion, dysfunction and block you from growing, learning, and moving forward in life have to be dealt with.
But we must be honest with ourselves.
We have to truly look at our REAL Motivations for wanting and doing certain things.
And we have to be more self aware of our reactions, how we respond too, what are our triggers?? what sets us off???
When we're triggered, are we mindful enough to stay in control and proper perspective??? Or do we just explode with rage and uncontrolled emotions?
What sort of person would you want to be around?
What sort of Man would a woman feel most comfortable around?
And also, can you walk away from a woman who doesnt want you?
The more we know ourselves and our Values, and the more we have integrity and follow our own internal compass and not some brainwashing, the more we are in harmony with ourselves. And this brings us some peace. Peace that most people DO NOT have nowadays.
Instead of tearing others down , why not build ourselves up?
The stronger your "Silent Flute" is , the less the finger wagging propagandists have an effect on you.
And the more you see how scared and disempowered they are. Because they seek not to free you and educate you, but to enslave you and indoctrinate you.
You must know your own truth.
Own it.
And work on the parts that you know do not serve you. Release those things.
You dont have to wear them as a badge. Most people wear them and it becomes like a heavy anchor around their neck.
You dont have to do that.
Become more responsible for yourself , your thoughts, words, and actions.
Instead of being afraid of it, embrace it and accept that it is your destiny anyway. Might as well take the bull by the horns...