"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Truth to looks

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crossboss

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I am a good looking guy, to the fact where a girl has never called me ugly. Some people have seen me on this forum as a loser, even though now I have changed. I am now more social.

Basically I was good looking, couldn't even get a date.

First off you can't look at yourself as a loser, you need to think of yourself as a great leader. Dress sexy, think you are sexy. Get in shape.

The truth is looks are like IQ. If you have an IQ of 140, does that nessarily mean you will be the most successful person in the world? NO, looks equate to potential. If you are a stiff, shy person, your looks will equate for little.

That is why high confident people have the most success. You need to be good looking and relaxed with self. Although if you are bad looking you can improve greatly.

Let me know what you think. I have seen ugly people, go out with girls better looking than them. But, did I say a homeless guy could go out with Pamela Anderson? With the best macking skills and mind set, no.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Looks don't mean all that much without social status and social proof IMO.

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Master Bates

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Good looks will open some doors that other guys will have to work around. But that's about it.
 

DonGorgon

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Here is the break down:

Women 18-24 : Looks = 80%-90% important
Women 25-35 : Looks = 40%-60% important
Women 36-45 : Looks = 10%-30% important
Women 45-99 : N/A = N/A

Note: for each time a reduction in the importance of looks is represented, there is a substantial increase in the importance of financial wealth.
 

Rollo Tomassi

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As much as I love a good "looks" debate.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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