"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Truth to looks

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crossboss

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I am a good looking guy, to the fact where a girl has never called me ugly. Some people have seen me on this forum as a loser, even though now I have changed. I am now more social.

Basically I was good looking, couldn't even get a date.

First off you can't look at yourself as a loser, you need to think of yourself as a great leader. Dress sexy, think you are sexy. Get in shape.

The truth is looks are like IQ. If you have an IQ of 140, does that nessarily mean you will be the most successful person in the world? NO, looks equate to potential. If you are a stiff, shy person, your looks will equate for little.

That is why high confident people have the most success. You need to be good looking and relaxed with self. Although if you are bad looking you can improve greatly.

Let me know what you think. I have seen ugly people, go out with girls better looking than them. But, did I say a homeless guy could go out with Pamela Anderson? With the best macking skills and mind set, no.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Looks don't mean all that much without social status and social proof IMO.

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Good looks will open some doors that other guys will have to work around. But that's about it.
 

DonGorgon

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Here is the break down:

Women 18-24 : Looks = 80%-90% important
Women 25-35 : Looks = 40%-60% important
Women 36-45 : Looks = 10%-30% important
Women 45-99 : N/A = N/A

Note: for each time a reduction in the importance of looks is represented, there is a substantial increase in the importance of financial wealth.
 

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As much as I love a good "looks" debate.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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