"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Truth to looks

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crossboss

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I am a good looking guy, to the fact where a girl has never called me ugly. Some people have seen me on this forum as a loser, even though now I have changed. I am now more social.

Basically I was good looking, couldn't even get a date.

First off you can't look at yourself as a loser, you need to think of yourself as a great leader. Dress sexy, think you are sexy. Get in shape.

The truth is looks are like IQ. If you have an IQ of 140, does that nessarily mean you will be the most successful person in the world? NO, looks equate to potential. If you are a stiff, shy person, your looks will equate for little.

That is why high confident people have the most success. You need to be good looking and relaxed with self. Although if you are bad looking you can improve greatly.

Let me know what you think. I have seen ugly people, go out with girls better looking than them. But, did I say a homeless guy could go out with Pamela Anderson? With the best macking skills and mind set, no.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Looks don't mean all that much without social status and social proof IMO.

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Good looks will open some doors that other guys will have to work around. But that's about it.
 

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Here is the break down:

Women 18-24 : Looks = 80%-90% important
Women 25-35 : Looks = 40%-60% important
Women 36-45 : Looks = 10%-30% important
Women 45-99 : N/A = N/A

Note: for each time a reduction in the importance of looks is represented, there is a substantial increase in the importance of financial wealth.
 

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As much as I love a good "looks" debate.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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