Mr_knowit_all
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Over my 26 years, I've encountered a myriad of different women. Some were sweet, some were *****y, some insecure, some stuck up, some just plain crazy. But there's something ALL of these women have in common. They were looking for a guy they could respect.
It's been my experience that women are really looking for a guy they can look up to. I don't care how good looking you are, once a woman gets to know you and finds out you're a dork, she's not going to stay attracted to you.
You can't love someone you don't respect. That's the bottom line.
Now, what evokes this mysterious emotion in women called respect?
1) Stand your ground and don't enter her reality.
2) Don't reveal too much about your short comings.
3) Be willing to walk away
4) Have your own life, and don't be clingy.
5) Respect yourself
6) Don't reward her for bratty behavior
7) Be the man. Make some decisions and don't let her always lead the way
8) This ties in with number 2- Don't be too emotional. See a therapist if you need to, but don't wimper and whine infront of a woman. No matter how much they say they like sensitive guys, it'll make you look weak.
This is just a brief synopsis of some things I can think of that garnered me respect from women. Remember this, you lived before you were with a woman, and you'll live after a break up too.
It's been my experience that women are really looking for a guy they can look up to. I don't care how good looking you are, once a woman gets to know you and finds out you're a dork, she's not going to stay attracted to you.
You can't love someone you don't respect. That's the bottom line.
Now, what evokes this mysterious emotion in women called respect?
1) Stand your ground and don't enter her reality.
2) Don't reveal too much about your short comings.
3) Be willing to walk away
4) Have your own life, and don't be clingy.
5) Respect yourself
6) Don't reward her for bratty behavior
7) Be the man. Make some decisions and don't let her always lead the way
8) This ties in with number 2- Don't be too emotional. See a therapist if you need to, but don't wimper and whine infront of a woman. No matter how much they say they like sensitive guys, it'll make you look weak.
This is just a brief synopsis of some things I can think of that garnered me respect from women. Remember this, you lived before you were with a woman, and you'll live after a break up too.
