Also if a woman is interested this rule is usually out the window anyway because she will be contacting you first after the date. Some guys will take this "rule" and probably not text back for 3 days still.
I know, right?? And I mention in the video that part of the reason you want to wait is that, if you have it in your head to wait a few days to call, she'll be more apt to reach out to YOU first, which allows you to better gauge her interest vs. if you had called/text her sooner. Most men are usually in their heads saying "if I don't text/call her right away she won't know I like her," not realizing that, were they more patient, she'd reach out first - and, if she's chasing you, she can't be replacing you.
Plus, OF COURSE you'd text her back if she reaches out first. Even with that, though, the purpose of using the phone should always, in my opinion, be used to set up the next date. Her reaching out is actually a good way to read that she probably wants that to happen, so of course you need to respond. That said, that doesn't mean (a) you need to respond back right away, and (b) that you must now have a marathon texting session with her. You still want to keep your responses at a ratio where she's doing more texting than you (most men start spilling out paragraphs of text, which is uuuuuugh), and... well, I have a whole free e-Book on texting in my signature, otherwise I'd be typing all day lol
The rules (better referred to as "guidelines" in my mind) were developed to curb overly-eager/aspiring DJs from contacting chicks too much and too frequently. Generally speaking, less is more when it comes to communication with a potential plate. I agree with another poster referring to them as "training wheels" where they generally will help you get where you need to go.
However, once you have enough confidence you don't need any rules at all. Once you have the confidence to simply do what you want (and women will pick up on this), you are free to do/say almost anything within reason. At that point, rules like the classics "no double texting" or "3 days between calls" don't even need to be adhered to. It takes a while to get there and usually is going to require an abundance mentality. If you don't have that then you risk coming off too needy. Hence why these guidelines exist in the first place.
I actually agree in the sense that not every single woman you date will stop having feelings for you if you call or text her the day after the date. However, what I teach are things designed to help increase the
probability of dating success. Between my own dating experience and observing the dating lives of men I've coached and women friends who have dated men, my conclusion has been that the men who are most successful are the ones that aren't trying to call their dates back right away. Heck, I've had more success increasing the attraction of women with whom I barely text with on the phone, than those who I was hitting up every day.
Besides, most women actually complain about men who text them too much and get turned off very easily. Why risk it if you don't have to? And I think having the abundance mentality actually helps with this - when you have that mindset, you don't have to worry about texting/calling right away because on the off-chance it turns her off, you know you have other women you can talk to. But again, in my exerpience, less texting usually gets them highly interested in me at a much faster pace.
