The Truth About All This Shyt About Women

[dynamicallyidle]

Hey guys, DJF. You guys are in the right parking lot, but in the wrong spot.

****y and funny, being a challenge, mystery, I noticed I do all those things naturally. I am very sexual around women and really in everything, so I am always charming, flirty, I do make fun of women, they know I am just playing, etc. I believe I get lead because I generally always feel very good about myself, I am very sexual, and I meet women.

Period. But, that's not my problem.

You see, there's a part in me that wants to progress with a girl pass just the fvcking part, pass just the sexual shyt....I can't even have a conversation with a girl without it being about sex, anything else bores em.

Geniunely, I am a nice person, I care for people. Even when I am in my little sexual shyt, which is all natural, I am not a jerk, I am more of a cool, charming guy. It's just that, I want to also LIKE a girl, I mean, make an investment in her that she's mine. Be with her, hold her, all that stuff.

It's everytime I begin to "like" a girl, shes turns away. Now, rejection is rejection, if I am rejected for being unattractive, that is fine. But you're not telling me, just five minutes ago I was the sexiest, coolest person you've ever known, now that I "like" you, I'm not anymore?

Problem with this is I AM NOT COMFORTABLE. I refuse to live my life just playing games, just fvckin, just phone sexin, just going out and ONS all the fvckin time, without putting a serious investment, I'm fvckin tired of it. I just turned 23 years old, I refuse to live the rest of my life just putting my dyck in shyt.

They are going to fvckin change, period. You're not telling me its an attraction problem, because I act and behave the same fvckin way, before I "like" her, then I do after I "like" her. I NEED to like women, I NEED to be in love with women, if I'm just fvckin the whole circus I feel like a god damn clown, and I'm tired of feeling that way.

First of all, congrats for having such sexual game. That's something that I'm sure most guys want over "emotional" game.

Having read your problems, I think you just have to take steps to get to KNOW YOURSELF in situations where you're trying to take a relationship with a girl to the next level. Start paying attention to yourself, and what you're doing to repel these girls. Once you have some "data" on yourself, you can figure out what you're doing wrong, or come back to us with more specific issues.

ALSO, try this. Before you take a relationship with a girl to the next level, have a game plan. Know what it is that women want, emotionally, from a relationship, and provide it to them. This will help keep any needy / insecure / wussy behaviors in check.

Ultimately, it's about knowing yourself and being in CONTROL of yourself.

You're a natural when it comes to the sexual part of the relationship, but this does not mean you're a natural when it comes to the emotional. Fortunately, this is definitely something you can get better at.

 

[DanelMadr]

ALSO, try this. Before you take a relationship with a girl to the next level, have a game plan. Know what it is that women want, emotionally, from a relationship, and provide it to them. This will help keep any needy / insecure / wussy behaviors in check.

Ultimately, it's about knowing yourself and being in CONTROL of yourself.

You're a natural when it comes to the sexual part of the relationship, but this does not mean you're a natural when it comes to the emotional. Fortunately, this is definitely something you can get better at.

He is trying to avoid THE GAME issue But you are right. My advice....
HOLD ON UNTIL they want to take it to the next level.

 

[DonJuanForever]

You know, I honestly don't know if this is nature "making me" into the man I am supposed to be or not.....but by the way, you guys STILL ARE NOT GETTING WHAT I AM SAYING.

I don't know, could be wrong, Pook even said this, others have said it too, I believe at the end of the day, maleness is what "gets them" but my maleness usually only comes out when I am chasing my passion, happy about life, enjoying life, etc, etc.

It's in those times, that I get laid, it's in those times that I can get laid. But, it's in those times, I DON'T WANT TO GET LAID. I DON'T EVEN FVCKIN LIKE WOMEN THEN. Seriously.

When I am not so "up" that is when I look for women. Hell, I shouldn't have to be UP all the fvckin time? I mean, when something goes wrong in my business that effects me emotionally, hell yeah I'm going to be down, that is when I need a woman....then. But it's at those times they are no where to be found.

And it's every single fvckin woman, black, white, red, blue, all of them.

Maybe I shift to another "person" when I'm down? Maybe I turn to a bytch, I don't know? Maybe, just maybe. I do know that it's those times when I feel like a bytch that's the times I really only need a bytch.

 

[Bvbidd]

It's the same with everybody else. We know what your saying. Just accept it.

Nobody wants to be around somebody who isn't up all the time.
It sucks I know. But suck it up.

You probally wouldn't want to be around her if she was all upset and *****y and depressed either. It works both ways.

 

[belividere]

hey P-E,
Nice to see you back around here

 

[ValleyDJing]

I totally get what you're saying bro, and in a perfect world thats how things would be. But thats just the thing, it ain't a perfect world and we just have to deal with it. So you either get busy mackin, or get busy jackin. As a matter of fact...thats gonna be my new signature! haha!