"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"

The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.

Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.

Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.

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-=The Trump Factor=-

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No this has nothing to do with the apprentice or Donald Trump first of all. :)

What is a trump? What does it mean?

NOUN: 1. Games A card in the trump suit, held in reserve for winning a trick.
2. A key resource to be used at an opportune moment; a trump: “[They] seem determined to use the agreement as a trump card to obtain … all the advantages they feel they deserve” (Christian Science Monitor).

A trump is the thing that "trumps" everything else. It what wins you tricks. It is the backup plan, the power-move, and the big-dawg in cards.

I relationships the trump factor can help you win tricks also:)

Nomatter what you're doing during the seduction of a woman always remember that your trump card is your partial unavailability. This means that she can never know (at least in the early to middle stages of a relationship, that she can have you). Women, and people in general, want what they can't have. This rule is singularly more important than any other rule or technique you've heard.

Remembering this also makes it a lot easier to figure out what to do in a given situation. Whether it be talking initially, dating, or getting physical, ALWAYS remember that "she wants what she can't have" trumps everything.

You must act and believe that you havn't decided whether you've accepted her yet. When you kiss her, don't kiss her like she has you, kiss her like you're still sizing her up. When you're talking to her don't be that puppy-faced ga-ga loser whos telling the girl the game is over with his gestures and body language, after all, you haven't decided yet.

If you remember one thing remember that women want what they can't have. Women are also intrigued by what they cannot figure out(mystery). So don't throw all your cards on the table. Hold your trump card back until that fateful date revered by so many women... the day they can show the world that they can catch a man. Until shes caught you, you better fvcking not act like she has. DONT FORGET IT CUZ IF YOU DO YOU ARE TOAST BUDDY.

-J
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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