Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The Trojan War....

dudewut

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NO, its not a condom joke!

So supposedly women like strong men, men who are like bad@ss. And since literature is all about humans and human behavior, primitive and otherwise (heck, even Pook mention some literary classics....oh Don Juan for example) The Trojan war is a confusing thing for me.

So Helen the hottest babe in the world is married to a highly testosteronized Alpha (being King of Sparta too, double Alpha!) that makes sense, women with estrogen likes men with testosterone.

However she runs away with Paris, some Prince (who is not even next in line to the throne) and is a major wuss.

So....does that mean some girls likes betas?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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It's a story bro, I don't think Paris stealing Helen indicates anything about alpha maleness, its just a precursor to starting the Trojan War. Also as cowardly as he is, he is the one that slays Achilles in the end.

According to wikipedia: "

Some years later, Paris, a Trojan prince, came to Sparta to claim Helen, in the guise of a supposed diplomatic mission. Before this journey, Paris had been appointed by Zeus to proclaim the most beautiful goddess. In order to earn his favour, Aphrodite promised Paris the most beautiful woman in the world. Swayed by Aphrodite's offer, Paris chose her as the most beautiful of the goddesses, earning the wrath of Athena and Hera."

So Aphrodite a goddess just made her smitten with him.
 

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is there ever a guy that you can just tell is a sleezebag and tries every which angle, including the crying shoulder to get in your girlfriends pants every time you have a fight? usually pretty good looking in a pvssy feminine way?

Dont you just wanna **** that guy in the face with a sledgehammer?

yeah. same thing. awesome villian makes a more interesting story.
 

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There's another thread right on the first page.. Masculine men and pretty boys.
Paris was a pretty boy and a prince who ... had a lot of experience..
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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