The trap of beautiful women

[Oxide]

Recently i've started chatting with a few VERY beautiful girls..and the more i realized how great they looked, the more i started feeling like i am falling into this trap of "She looks amazing, how hard will it be to get with her.. how good are my chances comparing to her standards?" This hits you fast and leaves you less secure and confident... so gentelman, and this is a big reminder to all of you, as well as to myself..


Do not let woman's looks affect you

Do not let her looks affect the way you treat her:

If she is a model, great, treat her like a girl.
If she is a stripper, great, treat her like a girl.
If she is an ugly hag, great, treat her like a girl.



Do not be a jerk to ugly girls and dont be a push over to great girls.. keep it the same, and you will not fall into this trap of insecurity.

 

[Sart]

yeah

Well said Oxide, its a hard one, but you're dead right.

 

[Bonhomme]

So true

And the flip side is they tend to be attracted to you when you do treat them like any other girl.

 

[thefonz]

I was never really one to give hot girls compliments upon just SEEING them..... I think i actually despised them more growing up cus they had so much more than i could evr have just cus they were so beautiful.....but now i know how to deal without being a belligerent bastard.

It's all about controlling emotions man, it's weird cus that use to be one of my least concerns even though it was one of my biggest problems

 

[RedKnight04]

Do not be a jerk to ugly girls and dont be a push over to great girls.. keep it the same, and you will not fall into this trap of insecurity.

The key is to realize that balance is EVERYTHING.

 

[Alpha Male]

This is a great point and I'm getting better at this as time goes by. I hope I never stop getting better at this actually.

If you're afraid of girls then you're giving off weak signals. Pretty obvious really.

Wimpiness is poison. Be less wimpy lol.

 

[Void]

Ahh that's going to be hard to do. But yeah that's a must.
I'm goign to have to try to do that more often.

Good post.

 

[Albion4]

When I am with a 9 to 10 and I start feeling that feeling, I picture her with about 100 lbs added on, scraggly unwashed hair, poor complexion and it all goes away. I even giggle after I think that and the girl usually asks, "What?" That's usually a great in for some story...

-Al