"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Tragedy Of Being Labelled As A Hunk

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KoalaKing said:
It has already been implied by three of the posters on this thread alone already, I read it every single time that I come into this site, open your eyes and you will see it too. :cool:
Then you should have no problem providing those examples now, should you?:rolleyes:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Slevin said:
Then you should have no problem providing those examples now, should you?:rolleyes:
This is a small thread, you should be able to find them yourself, but if you can't then read post number 10, 11, and 13. :mad:
 

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KoalaKing said:
This is a small thread, you should be able to find them yourself, but if you can't then read post number 10, 11, and 13. :mad:
Those are not examples of what you said. You said:
as this is the only place that I have ever read that people actually believe that it is easier to allure and seduce gorgeous woman if you are a guy of unattractive and average looks than it is if you are a guy who is very good looking.
So please provide examples of people saying it is easier for unattractive guys to get women then attractive guys.:cuss:
 

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Slevin said:
Those are not examples of what you said. You said:

So please provide examples of people saying it is easier for unattractive guys to get women then attractive guys.:cuss:
If they are not EXAMPLES then what are they, open your eyes and you will see that they are, :rolleyes:
 

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KoalaKing said:
If they are not EXAMPLES then what are they, open your eyes and you will see that they are, :rolleyes:
Certainly not examples of people saying it's easier for unattractive guys then it is for attractive ones. They are examples of people saying that you can make up for being not being attractive by having game.:nono:
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Here, I'll give you two an example right here.

I know this one dude that's probably I suppose a 5-5.5 in looks, 3.5-4.0 in appearance. He wakes up and says to himself, "I think I'll go to a bar tonight and find a girl to lick my balls." And that he does. No problem, I mean...it's not even an issue. I've seen him do something similiar with my own eyes and the chick was no heifer either. Easy as pie. I go to the bar, and you literally could not pay me to go and introduce myself to a woman. Literally. Women have tried to pay me to talk to other women, and I've refused, ok? It's much harder for me. And I'm rarely approached by them. EASIER for unattractive men, HARDER for attractive men.

There ya go.
Nope, easier for that one guy then it is for you, and appearance has nothing to do with it. The reason your friend gets laid and you don't is because his game is better then yours and he's not a puzzy like you apparently are.
 

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I think it depends. Younger chicks (18-25) are gonna want a good looking dude. Personality counts at that age, but not as much compared to chicks who are older than 25.
 

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man u must be really ugly to come up with a theory like that.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
Awesome. You just flushed your entire argument down the toilet.

You're too f'ucking right appearance has nothing to do with it. Looks don't mean s'hit, like I've been saying all along and you evidently are just now understanding. GAME is what matters. PERSONALITY, CONFIDENCE, STATISTIC PROBABILITY...THAT'S what matters. Not some random bulls'hit like looks. And you know what? You're telling me nothing new, friend. His game is awesome. I have none. I'm also a WBAFC, as I've stated many times myself. Calling me a p'ussy isn't really an insult, as I've already admitted that I'm a p'ussy numerous times.

You wanted an example of how it's easier for an unattractive guy than an attractive one and I handed you a nice and flawless example. You then confirmed it with your own words of "appearance has nothing to do with it." Thanks, man. :up:
I apologize if I came across as harsh, that wasn't my intention. I thought you were egging me on and responded in kind.

The OP said flat out that people on this site think it's easier to get women if you are unattractive and I was asking for him to provide examples. He tried to dance around my question by being deliberately vague, so I called him on it.

You wound up in the crosshairs and I'm sorry.:flowers:

Please reread my initial posts and hopefully you will understand the point I was trying to make.

I do, however, believe all thing being equal the more attractive man will win out every time.
 

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youknowtherest said:
Being a hunk ROCKS.

Sorry -- painful but true.

Women tend to think I'm "up to something," when I approach, and that was a hindrance for awhile, but I learned to expect it and work it into my game.
I learned early on that by approaching them I definitely gave off the 'up to something' vibe unintentionally. Never heard anyone else put it that way but I've also worked a way around it. I just wait for them to come up to me (and they always do).

But yes.. looking like this does rock and it's not just for younger women.. Older ones love me too. I'm sorry if some of you are in the cheap seats! :)

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