You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Then you should have no problem providing those examples now, should you?KoalaKing said:It has already been implied by three of the posters on this thread alone already, I read it every single time that I come into this site, open your eyes and you will see it too.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Those are not examples of what you said. You said:KoalaKing said:This is a small thread, you should be able to find them yourself, but if you can't then read post number 10, 11, and 13.
So please provide examples of people saying it is easier for unattractive guys to get women then attractive guys.:cuss:
Certainly not examples of people saying it's easier for unattractive guys then it is for attractive ones. They are examples of people saying that you can make up for being not being attractive by having game.:nono:KoalaKing said:If they are not EXAMPLES then what are they, open your eyes and you will see that they are,
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nope, easier for that one guy then it is for you, and appearance has nothing to do with it. The reason your friend gets laid and you don't is because his game is better then yours and he's not a puzzy like you apparently are.Deus ex Pianoforte said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I apologize if I came across as harsh, that wasn't my intention. I thought you were egging me on and responded in kind.Deus ex Pianoforte said:Awesome. You just flushed your entire argument down the toilet.
You're too f'ucking right appearance has nothing to do with it. Looks don't mean s'hit, like I've been saying all along and you evidently are just now understanding. GAME is what matters. PERSONALITY, CONFIDENCE, STATISTIC PROBABILITY...THAT'S what matters. Not some random bulls'hit like looks. And you know what? You're telling me nothing new, friend. His game is awesome. I have none. I'm also a WBAFC, as I've stated many times myself. Calling me a p'ussy isn't really an insult, as I've already admitted that I'm a p'ussy numerous times.
You wanted an example of how it's easier for an unattractive guy than an attractive one and I handed you a nice and flawless example. You then confirmed it with your own words of "appearance has nothing to do with it." Thanks, man.
I learned early on that by approaching them I definitely gave off the 'up to something' vibe unintentionally. Never heard anyone else put it that way but I've also worked a way around it. I just wait for them to come up to me (and they always do).youknowtherest said: