"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The top 3 things that shaped you as a Mature Men

jhonny9546

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Mention the TOP 3 things that changed your life and you'll never forget.


It could be books, articles, videos, or other resources have you read or "engaged" or " directly experiencied" that have had a strong impact on you, made you aware of things you previously ignored, and contributed to your maturity as a man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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BaronOfHair

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Having a mother who was a butch dyke/lobotomized baboon hybrid, and a father who was a walking poster child for the term "mangina", unable to even stand up for himself by dropkicking that f-cking animal back to whatever primate exhibit he found her in, and finding himself a mate that could at least masquerade as part of the human race

Though it took me awhile to figure out that no one was coming to save me(or any of us, for that matter), this did prompt me to make a conscious effort to become a formidable, psychologically mature man, granted I'm far from perfect at it today

There are traits one can only get from walking across metaphorical broken glass with his bare feet, and learning that it's survivable, even if painful
 
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