I know, but that's the truth, all races are gunning for white women or at least view them as the best. I've said it before, but there IS racial hierachy and it works both ways and varies depending on country it seems.ketostix said:Well I think this is a very honest assessment for why some people pursue girls outside their race. And revenge and trying to "take something away from the white guy" is a very wrong reason to be doing it.
Yes, they do. Most of the women who are idolised in typically non-white lands are very very fair. Look at Ashwarya Rai, hardly a typical indian woman. Even anecdotes of history show that men valued fair skin.ketostix said:OK the media and society pedestalizes women in general. If you go to Asia or India or even a Latin culture, would you expect them to put western or "white" women up as the model of idealized female beauty.
Interesting. You said that women in general were pedestalised, not focusing on the fact that white women are pedestalised the most. But when it comes to males, you zoom in on the fact that white males get a bashing.ketostix said:The truth is it's only "OK" to and the media really only bashes white males, so it seems like the last thing white males would want or need is a bunch self-described minorities seeking "revenge".
Just state it how it is dude. Women are pedestalised, men knocked down. Majority races are pedestalised and depending on region, minorities are knocked down but certain groups are better off than others. e.g.) In America black is deemed better than Chinese in terms of appeal to the opposite sex, in general.
Yes but as we've discussed in that thread 'does every pretty girl have a bf', it's rarely the right reasons. From a white girl at my uni dating a guy because he's white and middle class, to a chinese or black guy chasing a white girl at the expense of his own race for 'revenge'.ketostix said:I think anyone should date whoever they want for the right reasons.
Yes, but that's the human reaction to an uneven playing field. The chinese guy is ridiculed and stereotyped as a nerdy loser minority from China, so in the US he can't get girls. So they develop an obsession with white girls. Black guys do the same thing, wanting to get white girls as a revenge of the slavery days and the 50's where they were second class.ketostix said:But when it's for revenge of some perceived need or it's to get at the "white male", then that's a wrong motivation as it gets and is racist.
This isn't a very useful point. The point is that nearly any time there is a white-asian couple, it will rarely be a chinese guy-white girl. White guys get to date both whites and chinese, chinese guys struggle with their own group if there are white males competing. But I agree in general a white guy will date a white girl ... if he can.ketostix said:White males don't generally date asians or any other non-white girls to stick it to the men of that group.
Yes but whites in history haven't really had much to revenge for against blacks, and there is a case that in general white guys don't find black women that attractive. Remember social brainwashing and the media is powerful, so that helps install the belief that their own women are the best.ketostix said:Just like they don't go after black females for revenge. Any time you see a guy who on the one hand criticize whites and white males, then pursues and lusts after white women, it's a pretty good bet they have bad motives.
I think you're mistaken that a foreign guy criticises white males, I think he's more likely to criticise the dynamic in which there is racial hierachy and prejudice due to media, social brainwashing, outdated beliefs etc. Every guy knows that in an ideal world every guy wants a ton of hot chicks.
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